At some point or another, but for sure, each child becomes aware of the dark or shadow self within the personal composition. It becomes important to be aware of the light and shadow selves and learn to balance the births and deaths within each as part of the metabolic process involved in being and becoming humane. When this education is not paid attention to at the different developmental stages, including but not limited to adult education no matter what or where the economical status of a person in the statistical purview, lopsided experiences of living tends to maintain inability in maintaining common sense and happiness as a constant for having health, wealth and wisdom based on non-violence. Maybe more attention would be paid to early on education into non-violence based on self, not god, such that self-awareness becomes ground for mindfully living as the foundational prayer that maintains the threads of breath as the veil so that our personal light within does not blind an onlooker no matter what the gender. Then, in the mirror of our face maintained clear by the threads of breath that forms our common sense, people would recognise themselves and come home to begin humanely themselves maintaining humanity across boundaries of our skin no matter how big our body.