I explain that nothing is under your control and nobody belongs to you! A great deal of unhappiness in this world today is simply because people have lost power over their own lives. We all have free will to choose the way we want to live, but we have to understand that we were not born to belong to anyone else. Your energy is your currency, the more positive and jolly you are, the more valuable you are to others. Don't give away your currency so others can move up in life. It's time you start working on yourself and make yourself more valuable.