Have you ever held sand in your hand? The tighter you hold the sand, the more sand that will slip through your fingers. Our lives are similar in that we can't control all the aspects of our lives. Carolyn shares how traumatic events in her life led her to try and control everything, including her relationships. This control led her into some unhealthy relationships, and into a performance-based religion. However, God was pursuing, and her story will amaze you and bless your life!