Why do so many men seem to get stuck in a perpetual state of adolescence, treating relationships like conquests and shirking responsibilities? Discover the root causes of arrested development in relationships as Megan and Dr. Steve Scheibner explore this pervasive issue in our latest episode of "Death by Adulting". We delve into the mindset that keeps some men trapped at a 19-year-old level of maturity, leading to toxic behaviors like love bombing and blame-shifting. Through real-life counseling experiences and societal analysis, we highlight the seven signs of immature relationships and offer strategies for recognizing and addressing these harmful patterns.

But it’s not just about the men. We also contrast this arrested development with how it manifests in women, particularly after marriage. You’ll hear about the struggles women face in balancing personal ambitions with household duties, and the damaging impact of unrealistic self-expectations. We discuss why the mentality of "I can change him" often fails and the importance of assessing a partner’s maturity and past relationship behaviors before committing. Megan and Dr. Steve provide insights into embracing responsibilities joyfully and breaking the cycle of immaturity for more fulfilling, mature relationships. Listen in to learn how to foster healthier connections and grow beyond arrested development.