It Is Okay to remove yourself from poisonous people and or people who have targeted agendas and part of that is removing the self and the co dependency or need for approval, or attachment or inclusion at a table you either dont belong at or a table  filled with snakes you cannot align to. Its not always the organization or community, or intimate partner or acquaintance,  its the people who make the organization , community or what ever it is your dealing with in intimate partnership, relationship or marital. Either way its okay to remove or unengage or completely disengage or divorce what no longer serves you or no longer brings you peace or is the constant factor disturbing or disrupting your peace or progress