I've been away from this space longer than planned. 

Life and loss asked something of me that I needed to honour first.

I'm back. And the episode I'm returning with feels right.

This is a solo episode. Personal. Reflective. And I hope, useful.

I talk about a period in my career when I became the kind of manager I wouldn't have wanted for myself, not because I didn't care, but because nobody had given me the tools to lead differently.

I talk about what use of self actually means in practice, not as theory, but as lived experience.

I talk about why this concept is not neutral. For Black practitioners and leaders, bringing yourself has always carried a different weight.

And I talk about what organisations must create, not as a luxury, but as a condition for people to do this Work sustainably.

The Work is relational. Leadership is relational. And it begins with you.