First date, who pays?! The 'showdown' game guys are playing when it comes to the first date. Is it right? Or is it a sign of a broke man?! But wait, can you expect what you yourself aren't bringing to the table?! You know that gold digger kind of thinking.

Listen in as we discuss setting standards that not only they must meet, but us as well and why it is important to be financially stable when dating. The explanation behind the explanation.

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