Beyond the Home Study

Brother from Another Mother: The Sibling Side of Adoption


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In this episode, Lora and Abbey dive into the beautifully messy world of sibling relationships in adoptive families. From shifting birth order to navigating loyalty, grief, and identity, this conversation brings nuance and compassion to the often-overlooked dynamics between siblings. They explore how adoption affects every child in the family—not just the one who joined through adoption—and share ways to support kids through open communication, shared family values, and intentional parenting.

You'll hear real talk about balancing different needs, making space for big feelings, and celebrating the unique roles each child plays. Whether you're preparing to grow your family or already parenting through adoption, this episode is packed with insights, encouragement, and reminders that there's no one right way to do family.


In this episode:

  • How adoption can shift sibling roles and birth order

  • Why loyalty and grief often show up in sibling dynamics

  • Tips for having open, age-appropriate conversations about adoption

  • How to hold space for individuality while nurturing family values

  • Encouragement for navigating sibling rivalry with grace and intention

  • Why resilience often grows through messy moments


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