• Yes!  You are in!  You hear that opener, you know it's BTR.  Buried Treasure Recovered, another one back from 19.  Whether you are married or in a relationship, note this, falling in and out of love is for rookies.  The pros, sooner or later need to choose to love.  Relationships are work and effort.  Marriage will be hard.  Math tells us that.  If there was more courting in marriage there would be less marriages in court.  So, reflection question, would you want to be married to you?  If you are a husband, are you and Ephesians 5:25 husband?  Confession, at times, 'No' I'm not and wouldn't want to be married to me.  So how can we step our game up?  

Ephesians 5:25 — New Living Translation (NLT)

• 25 For husbands, this means love your wives, just as Christ loved the church. He gave up his life for her

• Hint, if you are actually choosing to do above, everyday, that would be hard to leave.  At least the blame wouldn't be on you.  Further reflection on its way, here you go...