Unclenched Conversations, with Nicole

Bubble Baths Won’t Fix Burnout


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Burnout won’t heal from a checklist and a succulent, and you don’t need another poster telling you to hydrate. We open the filing cabinet of teacher stress and name what’s really happening to your nervous system when the inbox gaslights you, the workload spikes, and the “wellness committee” offers pie instead of change. Comfort has a place, but real relief comes from root work—tools that regulate your body in the moment and habits that hold when the bell rings.

We break down why workouts can feel amazing yet fail to touch the panic spiral once you’re back at your desk, and we spotlight the difference between passive meditation and active regulation. If sitting still only ramps up your thoughts, you’re not broken; you need a bridge. Learn practical active meditation approaches—tapping, guided movement, mindful walking with a mantra—that meet your physiology where it is, calm the system, and make quiet possible later. We also bust the 21-day habit myth with science-backed timelines, then map out how tiny, repeatable rituals compound into resilience over weeks, not wishful thinking.

Most of all, we reframe self-care: keep the bubble bath if it helps, but pair it with strategies that name dysfunction without internalizing it. Build a desk-ready regulation kit, swap performative goals for process goals, and stop waiting for a checklist to declare you “well.” Your sensitivity is data, not a defect. Listen, reflect, and then tell us the wellness checkbox that makes you roll your eyes the hardest—we’re collecting them. If this conversation hit you in the soul or the sarcasm gland, follow the show, share it with your teacher bestie, and leave a quick review so more educators find real help, not glitter and guilt.

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Unclenched Conversations, with NicoleBy Nicole