When I got married, I didn’t have everything figured out — not where we’d live, when we’d have kids, or what my career would look like. (Honestly, I still don’t.) But I did know I wanted to build a life with Marcus.

In this episode, I’m talking about what it’s like to commit before you feel “ready,” why marriage hasn’t meant the end of figuring myself out, and how partnership can actually give you more room to grow, not less.

Because building a life with someone doesn’t mean you stop building your own — sometimes it’s exactly what makes you feel safe enough to keep becoming who you are.

(Music Prod. credit to Matt Monroe)

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