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The anxiety we are collectively feeling in this post-election climate is real! That’s why it’s so important to ground yourself and be kind to yourself. And, in this episode of Dem Bois Podcast, my guest, Dr. Van Bailey and I discuss grounding practices, mental health, and the impact of kindness. The discussion also covers the challenges and triumphs of modeling as a trans person, advocating for greater representation in the fashion industry. And, we explore themes of queerness, self-expression, and the importance of community support for trans youth.

We talk:

09:56 - Dr. Van’s journey of identity and transition

20:07 - Modeling as a trans person

30:03 - Understanding non-binary identity and gender dynamics

40:05 - Navigating barbershop conversations

51:06 - The importance of self-care and grooming

01:05:12 - Navigating political challenges for trans rights

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Episode References:

Dapper Q

The Aggressives

Campaign for Southern Equality - IG

PLFAG

Read more about Dr. Van in their bio below:

Dr. Van Bailey (they/them/theirs) is an award-winning educator and consultant. Their speeches, content, and workshops relate to LGBTQ+ equity, mental health, and belonging in the workplace. They have experience overseeing offices that address implicit bias, LGBTQ+ equity, and diversity and inclusion. As a past director for diversity and inclusion, they have spoken on the importance of gender equity, authenticity, and belonging in the workplace. Dr. Bailey was listed in the Out 100 and Business Equality Magazine's 40 under 40. Dr. Bailey holds a BA from Denison University in English and Black Studies, an MA from Ohio State University in Higher Education and Student Affairs, and a Doctorate in Educational Leadership from California State University - Northridge. 

• IG: @drvanbailey
• TikTok: dr__handsome
• LinkedIn: Dr. Van Bailey

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