3-Year-Old Parenting Tools

Building Connection for Your 3-Year-Old


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Building Connection Age 3 SummaryWhy Building Connection?

Your child’s early years are a time of incredible growth, and one of the most important foundations you can build is connection. By creating small, consistent moments of bonding, you’re strengthening your child’s sense of security and trust — key ingredients for healthy attachment and emotional well-being.

Connection is built through everyday interactions — from feeding and diaper changes to playtime and soothing moments. These small yet powerful moments help your child feel loved, safe, and cared for.


 

●      “Are you ready to play?”

●      “Do you want to see what’s outside?”

●      “Are you feeling sleepy?”

Tip: When your child makes sounds, respond as if they’re speaking to you. This back-and-forth exchange builds early communication skills.

 



 

●      “You’re feeling fussy right now. I’m here.”

●      “I see you’re excited — look at that big smile!”

... helps your baby begin connecting emotions with words.

 

Tip: Children are learning that their feelings are valid and that caregivers are there to help them feel safe and calm.

 

 

 



 

●      If your child babbles, respond with a joyful tone: “Oh yes! Tell me more!”

●      If your child turns their head away, respect their need for space.

 

Tip: Repetition is key — small, consistent acts build long-term security.

 



 

●      Lower your voice.

●      Reduce background noise.

●      Hold them quietly to help them reset.

Trap: Remind yourself: "I’m doing my best, and that’s enough."

 



 

●      “I love how you smile when I sing that song!”

●      “You feel so calm when we rock together — I love these quiet moments.”

Tip: Building connection happens over time. Each small effort creates a stronger bond — and your baby will feel that love every day.

 

 

 

 

Recommended Citation: Center for Health and Safety Culture. (2025). Building Connection Age 3 Summary. Retrieved from https://www.ToolsforYourChildsSuccess.org

 

This content does not necessarily reflect the views or policies of the Tools for Your Child’s Success communities, financial supporters, contributors, SAMHSA, or the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services.

 

© 2025 Center for Health and Safety Culture at Montana State University

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3-Year-Old Parenting ToolsBy Center for Health and Safety Culture