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Building Your Tribe: Finding Friendship and Community in Adulthood | 017


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In this candid and humorous episode of the DINKWAP Show, hosts Rem and Alvia sit down with guests Cesca and Bea to explore the challenges and joys of building meaningful friendships as adults. The conversation delves into how we change throughout different life stages and why finding people who accept our current selves—not just who we were in college—becomes increasingly important. 


The quartet shares personal anecdotes about navigating awkward social situations, from wedding receptions where you know no one to unexpected encounters in public spaces. Through laughter and thoughtful reflection, they discuss how shared hobbies can create communities that provide both connection and a sense of belonging, especially for introverts who find traditional networking challenging.


Whether you're an extrovert who naturally draws people in or an introvert who struggles with small talk, this episode offers relatable insights on creating your own tribe in an age where authentic connections feel more valuable than ever.


  • (01:53) - - The importance of building your tribe as an adult
  • (03:32) - - How people change throughout life and need new friends who know the current you
  • (05:03) - - The "time capsule" effect of old friend groups
  • (06:11) - - The challenge of making friends without an office environment
  • (07:20) - - Why their community is for friendship, not dating
  • (10:45) - - Navigating awkward social situations
  • (14:21) - - Different levels of introversion and social survival skills
  • (24:05) - - Finding your tribe through shared activities
  • (31:12) - - The role of personal agreements in maintaining friendships

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    DINKWAP ShowBy Rem & Alvia