Relationships are indeed tricky. A dynamic many have to contend with is that between the "bungangera" (pursuer) and  "under da saya" (withdrawer). During conflicts, some are inclined to persistence, while others tend to withdraw— opposite reactions that can only cause further discord.  Stephanie and Leo set out to understand the ins and outs of this phenomenon, share personal encounters, and unearth possible ways to rise above such toxic behavior.