Most leadership calm wears off the moment the hard conversation arrives. If you've been using morning rituals and mindfulness to feel steadier and nothing is actually moving — here's why, and what to do about it. Chris McAlister goes live every Wednesday at lunch. This week: Zen and the art of avoiding leadership. Meet Namaste Ned — the leader who uses breath work, meditation, and wellness language to avoid the sentence they need to say out loud. Mindfulness is a scalpel, not a butter knife. Calm is the posture. The conversation is the work.