In part 2 of Can A Christian Be an Addict ? Rick Amato and a Mental Health professional ask If your loved one is an alcoholic/addict are you an idolater ?
If you have a child or spouse or parent that's sick - sometimes our entire world revolves around them. The greatest gift you can give a sick alcoholic/addict is to move your life forward. They will either recover with you - or get rid of you.