It is often said in the BLACK COMMUNITY SINGLE MOTHERS baby their sons, but raise their daughters. Is this still true, are too many mothers stunting the growth of their sons and raising them to be the very men they detest?  There are also a number of SINGLE MOTHERS who raise upstanding BLACK MEN, what are they doing, different?  How do the BLACK BOYS feel when their father is absent, or is being a WEEKEND DAD enough?  MENTAL DIALOGUE asking the questions America's afraid to ask. ALL I ASK IS THAT YOU THINK