The worse thing that can happen in your relationship is lack of trust. What ruins trust in a relationship cheating? That's right that big word we are all at some point Familar with and hate to think about. Some would say they would rather leave then cheat we heard that saying many times, but as we know the majority of the people who say this are the main cheaters. Some would say there is no reason you should ever cheat on the one you love. Have we ever really looked at the flipside of the coin? Can you be the blame for getting cheated on?