SMASHBengali is joined by Shankeya, sitting in for Gura. They discuss the times when we have to code switch - when you really want to clap back to a troll online or maybe you're with a friend but you've been spotted by a nosy cousin? How do you switch it up so they'll never know?!

In the chailemmas, Mya is clashing with her sister in law over a first birthday and Sienna has paid for more luggage space...should she share it with her cheap friend who didn't buy any?!

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Produced in Birmingham by Audio Always for BBC Asian Network.