In this episode of Cap & Gown, we explore the power of becoming an Illuminator. Inspired by ideas from "How to Know a Person: The Art of Seeing Others Deeply and Being Deeply Seen," we examine how shifting from a “danger brain” to a connection mindset changes the way we advise, teach, and lead. From nonverbal cues and mirroring to generous listening and active curiosity, we unpack the postures that communicate belonging before a single word is spoken.