The two saddest words in the English language have often been described as “if only.” Statements like “if only I graduated with a different degree…” or “if only I would have married later in life…” or “if only I would have listened…” have wreaked havoc over many of us. And “if we only” are honest (pun intended), these statements have turned into regrets—painful points of our past that have control over our lives today. Understanding and renouncing regret is the pathway of seeing the heart of God.