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In this episode of Pepper’s Perspectives, I reflect on the emotional tightrope I walk as an online adult entertainer. I’ve had men fall for me and I get it. The connection feels real because, in the moment, it is. But it’s also curated, part of the experience I’m offering. I talk about how I’ve had to gently remind clients (and sometimes even myself) where the lines are. Setting boundaries isn’t just for them, it’s for me too. This work takes emotional intelligence, self-awareness, and constant check-ins with my own heart. 

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