​C​ate & Ty are in downtown Detroit​ for today, ​feeling ​"old and lame" after staying up until 5am.​ They talk about the struggles of getting older, ​t​heir mutual love for the "Irish Goodbye" and ​how Tyler​ doesn't like it when plans are altered. ​Things get serious ​w​hen Cate asks about the impact of Tyler’s absent father, whose life was defined by addiction and time in prison. Tyler shares his earliest childhood memory—being a toddler and waking up to the flashlights of bounty hunters outside their trailer. He also reflects on the challenge of having to "burn down the fantasy" of an idealized dad and how the lack of a male role model ultimately shaped him into the dad and husband he is today.​ Lastly, Cate reads some Anonymous Secrets, and one in particular hits close to home.

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This week, Tyler sits down with Holly from Hope with Holly. They discuss her journey with Christian fundamentalism and how she was able to break away. From attending Liberty University and marrying into a religious family to the devastating loss of her first daughter, which became the catalyst for her deconstruction, Holly details how and why she's so passionate in helping other women find their autonomy.

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Cate & Ty continue with Elle Bee (@ellebee_official) in this Part 2 to explore the complexities of life in the public eye. She discusses the world of content creation, from vetting exclusive stories to managing the burnout that comes with 24/7 reporting. The conversation then shifts to Tyler and Cate's 16 and Pregnant journey. They address long-standing rumors, clarifying the reality of their back-and-forth decisions and the lack of support systems for teen parents when they already come from high risk families. Tyler also talks about the leaked message controversy, explaining the impact of being catfished by sources claiming to have "inside" information about their daughter. Lastly, the reality of open adoption, discussing the legal loopholes of non-binding agreements and the ongoing fight for adoptee rights.

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In this two-part episode, Cate & Ty welcome Teen Mom content creator Elle Bee (@ellebee_official) for a deep dive into her life and career. Elle opens up about growing up with teen parents, navigating her mother’s four marriages, and how childhood experiences with yelling and abuse shaped her "helicopter mom" parenting style. Elle recounts her journey from recording makeup reviews in a cramped bathroom closet to becoming a prominent voice in the Teen Mom commentary space. She also speaks on the ethics of reality TV coverage and the moment she realized the stars she discussed were actually watching her videos.

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In today's episode, Cate is joined by friend and content creator Rei Clarke (@rei_clarke) to discuss life's transitions and the power of breaking generational cycles. Ray shares her journey from debt collector to content creator, her experiences with burnout, and her dedication to advocating for children in the public eye. Cate reflects on the challenges of raising daughters in the spotlight and the importance of creating a safe environment. It's a conversation about growth, friendship, and staying true to oneself!

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Nova is back with her bearded dragon, Mochi, but this time joined by Ty! Nova shares the secret behind her high school-level reading scores and her experience as a young author. Tyler reads some audience questions, covering everything from reptile care and artistic anatomy to Nova’s bold stance on social media for kids. The episode concludes with a heartfelt discussion on kindness, the importance of standing up for others, and Nova’s big dreams for a more compassionate world.

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On today's episode, Cate is joined by a very special guest: her 11-year-old daughter, Nova! The duo dives into Nova's unique perspective on growing up in the reality TV spotlight since birth. Nova opens up about her relationship with her sisters, including the deep impact of meeting her adoptee older sister, Carly. Nova also answers fan questions about her favorite things to do with her parents, her dream of becoming a veterinarian, and her love for space and science. Joined by her pet dragon, Mochi, Nova proves she’s a natural co-host in this heartfelt episode!

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Cate and Ty talk about celebrating Veda’s 7th birthday and also getting first place in her cheer competition. They also discuss the long-term benefits of holding her back in kindergarten and her success with her IEP. Lastly, listeners ask for advice regarding a cheating BFF, dealing with your partner's toxic family, and thoughts on embryo adoption.

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Let's revisit an episode from 2025!

Join Cate & Ty as they sit with Connor Howe, known as @Adopted_Connor on social, as he challenges conventional narratives surrounding open adoption and exposes the often overlooked complexities of the adoption industry. As an adoptee himself, Connor discusses how open adoption, while intended to be a solution, can still lead to pain, confusion, and a sense of not belonging for adoptees. Connor also explains the profit-driven nature of adoption agencies, including their marketing tactics, and the role of unregulated adoption consultants.

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In this episode, Ashley Salazar (16 and Pregnant Season 2) joins Cate & Ty to discuss her journey with kinship adoption. Ashley reflects on the emotional challenges of relinquishing her daughter to her aunt and uncle, including the difficult period when she briefly changed her mind. Cate & Ty bring up the unaddressed trauma of birth parents, the lack of specialized support, and how Ashley's past experiences might have impacted her life today as she raises another child. 

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