In this family-centric episode of 'Between Over and Next,' Holli and Robert are joined by their children, Lindsey and Alex. From career choices to relationships, the family has a heartfelt conversation discussing the lessons they've learned and the support they've received from each other. With a focus on love, trust, and respect, this episode explores the unique bond between parents and children and the importance of fostering meaningful relationships.

As Holli and Robert reflect on their roles as parents, they underscore the importance of imparting resilience, love, and a drive to pursue one's passions. Lindsey discusses her gratifying experience as an educator, harnessing her artistic skills to ignite a similar fire in her students. Alex shares his multifaceted career trajectory, emphasizing the significance of forming genuine connections and taking calculated risks. Together, they piece a narrative that celebrates each family member's individuality while acknowledging the shared value of their collective experiences.

Tune in as they delve deep into the personal stories of family dynamics, career choices, and the unique challenges of parenting. It's an exploration of the growing pains and triumphs that bridge the generational divide and evidence of the profound influence parents have on their offspring's journey through life.

This episode promises not only to resonate with parents and their adult children but offer timeless insights to every listener.

In This Episode

00:00 Introduction to the podcast and the importance of the parent-child relationship 04:56 Reflecting on the experience of being parents 08:30 Lindsey's description of her parents as her biggest support system 09:48 Alex's description of his parents as driven, supportive, and innovative 11:33 Discussing important lessons learned in their 20s 11:33 Reflection on The 21st Century Bride event 11:57 Exploring the unknown and embracing change 12:07 Introduction to the couple's career paths and strengths 12:50 Learning to navigate relationships and career choices 13:52 The importance of resilience and adaptability 13:53 Alex's lesson learned on the importance of relationships 14:41 The significance of working with people you like 14:43 Finding a balance between work and personal life 15:26 Alex's journey from high school to college and various jobs 15:52 Embracing personal growth and self-discovery 17:08 Building strong foundations for the future 17:40 Alex's experience during the Covid pandemic 18:15 The importance of communication and trust in relationships 19:21 Embracing new experiences and stepping out of comfort zones 19:48 Alex starting his digital marketing agency 20:26 The value of lifelong learning and continuous growth 20:45 Lindsey's career path as an art teacher 21:32 Nurturing and maintaining meaningful friendships 22:21 Lessons learned as an art teacher 22:40 The role of gratitude and positivity in life 22:59 Lindsey's marriage and relationship with her husband 22:59 Meeting Lindsey's husband during her job search 23:47 Embracing challenges and learning from failures 24:12 Alex's happiness and optimism 24:52 The importance of self-care and mental well-being 25:00 Love for family and friends 26:03 Thoughts on the journey through the 20s 26:21 Lindsey's inspiration from her students 26:54 Alex's inspiration from friends and mentors 28:34 Alex's creative freedom and struggle with organization 29:00 Lindsey's joy in watching her students' progress 30:16 No regrets for Alex 30:58 Lindsey's advice: "When in doubt, do without" 31:57 Alex's belief that everything happens for a reason 32:29 Lindsey's desire to start a family 32:39 Lindsey's passion for cooking, baking, and curating photo albums 33:20 Alex sees himself staying in his current job for the long term 33:32 Robert is asked to share his wisdom 33:41 Robert reflects on parenting and the challenges of not having a guidebook 34:18 Robert talks about being involved in his children's lives and documenting their school years 35:04 Holli emphasizes the importance of kindness and being proud of her children 35:35 Alex talks about appreciating his dad's caring and responsible nature 37:16 Lindsey discusses the importance of annoying parents who care 38:09 Robert praises his children and their relationship with each other 38:50 Holli looks forward to the future and wants her children to be happy and follow their passions 39:43 Robert talks about resilience and leaving a legacy 41:37 Holli reflects on being a role model and fostering meaningful relationships 42:09 Robert discusses authenticity and the importance of learning from each other 43:17 Holli talks about leaving a legacy and continuing to share their story 44:00 Robert and Holli thank the listeners and invite feedback 44:44 End of podcast episode

Key Takeaways:

1. The role of parents as lifelong mentors and cheerleaders is crucial in shaping the personal and professional lives of their children.
2. Embracing one's passion and being open to life's changing landscapes is essential for growth and happiness.
3. Forming and nurturing connections is invaluable both personally and professionally.
4. The concept of resilience is a critical skill, ensuring one's ability to navigate the uncertainties of life.
5. How generational perspectives can differ and align, providing insights on parenting practices and relationships.

Family Quotes:

"My parents are my biggest support system, my rock. They help to guide me. They are two people that I can always count on." - Lindsey "Everything happens for a reason. I've never been worried whenever I've gotten let go or a new opportunity is coming. It's going to work out. - Alex "Stay calm and persevere." - Lindsey, reflecting on her career in education and the life lessons she has garnered "It's important to always be there for family." - Holli, encapsulating their family's core philosophy "It's who you know that matters" - Alex, on the importance of nurturing relationships in career progression" "My parents are driven, supportive, innovative, genuine, and just kind, warm-hearted people that are… They're just them. They're Holli and Robert, and everybody knows them. And everyone I know has always loved them." - Alex