Is singleness a curse? Are you someone that wants to be in a relationship, or wants to enjoy your season of singleness? If so, this episode is for you. Justin and Blair focus on Blair’s perpetual singleness, and how to enjoy being single (and prepare yourself for a future relationship).

Show Highlights:

Marriage is a holy season, but singleness is also a holy season.

Don’t live for the life you will have, instead of engaging in the life you do have. -BR.

When you fall in love with life, you are 10X more attractive. -BR

Desperation is not attractive. -JS

What you want will evolve. Choose for the long-term. -JS

People are afraid of being satisfied while single, because they believe it will prevent them from getting married. - JS

Who I want to become is who I will attract. -JS

Spend time becoming the person you want to attract. -BR

You’ll always find your someone with the same level of emotional health. -BR

People always have equal levels of dysfunction, but it may represent differently. -JS

We are attracted to people that will poke us in areas we need to grow. -BR

You can choose to love being single. -BR

When you are single, you can explore relationships in a way that you can’t when you are married. -BR

Being ready for a relationship forces you to be willing to confront your fears about intimacy. -JS

You are choosing to be alone every day that you choose to not take action to be a in a relationship. -BR

If there is drama in your female relationships, you should push pause, and figure out what’s going on. -JS

A girl becomes attractive when she views herself as beautiful. -BR

What you need in relationship is attraction, a willingness to grow, and self-love. -JS

To be happy single, go through a season of learning how to love yourself. -BR

When you live for tomorrow, you divorce yourself from the pleasure of your current season. -BR

Until you can feel satisfied living with yourself, you won't feel satisfied being with someone else. -JS