CEO Stories: Entrepreneurship, Business Strategy, and Online Marketing

CEO Stories 094: Learning to Give Yourself the Rest You Need

02.05.2019 - By Kate Boyd, Virtual CMO and Launch Strategist at Cobblestone Creative Co.Play

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Most of us our experts in our businesses, but also we’re usually REALLY bad at taking our own advice. Ashley Olivine found herself in the same position when she let her own physical and mental health drop on the priority list and she shares how she moved it back to a healthy place and stays there. Ashley’s big fail moment was not following her own advice.   Doctors are their worst patients and entrepreneurs don’t always practice what they preach.   She was getting sick and going to the medical community but it was not getting her anywhere.  She knew something was not right and something was wrong with her. If she had a client with those feelings, she would push them to continue to dig into the problem and listen to their body.   Instead of doing this, she listened to the medical community and thought that she just was not good enough. She was waiting for their validation to start taking care of herself in a better way.  Ashley was trying to serve everybody else and put herself last. She did not give herself enough value.   This ended up going on for over a year.   Not taking care of herself made the business suffer.  Clients could just sense something was wrong. Ashley just could not devote all her effort to the business.   Trying to juggle school, business, motherhood, and everything else was getting to her.  After a doctor’s appointment she was told to just go to the beach instead of driving straight home.  Ashley had a call and she decided to do it! After the call, she had time to enjoy her daughter.  It was a huge turning point that she really could run a business and be a mom at the same time. The people on the phone could hear the rejuvenation in her voice.  They knew she was doing well, and the next day her business took off again!   Conflict keeps us stuck in all of our relationships.   Now she does not feel guilty when she can’t do all of the things.    When Ashley is sick, she lies down and recovers instead of trying to push through with guilt that she isn’t doing enough.   Ashley keeps in mind that taking care of herself is actually best for her clients and her business. You do not have to give up your family for a career or your career for your family.  You can have both.

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