Tired of yelling at your teenager in the heat of the moment? You're not alone. Most parents confuse punishment with consequences, and their teens know it.

In this episode, Dr. Mark Schillinger breaks down the critical difference between reactive punishment (made up when you're angry) and structured consequences (teaching tools built into reality itself).

He shares the exact framework he's used with thousands of young men at The Young Men's Ultimate Weekend to help teens understand accountability without the power struggles. You'll discover why "gimme your phone" and "you're grounded" backfire, how to explain consequences in a way your teen actually respects, and the virtue-based system that makes consequences feel fair instead of punitive.

If you're exhausted from fighting with your son over the same issues, this framework will change how your family operates.

*** Key Takeaways ***

• The one thing that turns a consequence into a punishment (and why teens reject it) • How to explain consequences so your teen understands they're not made up by you • The Virtues, Values & Behaviors model that stops the guessing game • Why rewards are a trap (and what works better) • The simple phrase that reframes every consequence conversation

*** Resources Mentioned *** • Free Virtues & Values worksheet: email [email protected] • Learn more about The Young Men's Ultimate Weekend at https://www.ymuw.org

It's never too late to move your family in the right direction. You just need a way that works.

*** More Resources *** On-demand and live, online workshops for teenagers and young men are available here: https://cts.drmarkmentor.com/workshops

For a complimentary 20-minute consultation with Dr. Mark or for more information about his parent coaching and mentoring young men, go to https://cts.drmarkmentor.com/

*** About Dr. Mark Schillinger *** Dr. Mark Schillinger's work has been featured on the CNN show "This is Life with Lisa Ling." These videos are designed to help parents more effectively "challenge" or motivate their teenage sons to become more responsible and resilient. These videos offer straightforward advice so parents can minimize conflict and maximize cooperation with their sons – especially those young men who are distracted by their digital devices.

For more information, visit https://www.challengingteenagesons.com

*** Connect with Dr. Mark *** Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/challenging.teenage.sons Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/challengingteenagesons/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-mark-schillinger-family-mentor-and-community-leader-735585a/

Discover why modern parenting feels more stressful than ever in this insightful podcast episode.

Dr. Mark Schillinger explores how the collapse of traditional village-style child-rearing has left families struggling in our digital age.

Learn why we can't rely on outside forces to rescue our families from digital takeover, and how we can blend the best of ancient parenting wisdom with modern solutions.

*** Resources ***

Join the free parents' group for daily support and free solutions: https://www.facebook.com/groups/markstipsforparents

On-demand and live, online workshops for teenagers and young men are available here: https://cts.drmarkmentor.com/workshops

For a complimentary 20-minute consultation with Dr. Mark or for more information about his parent coaching and mentoring young men, go to https://cts.drmarkmentor.com/

*** About Dr. Mark Schillinger ***

Dr. Mark Schillinger's work has been featured on the CNN show "This is Life with Lisa Ling." These videos are designed to help parents more effectively "challenge" or motivate their teenage sons to become more responsible and resilient. These videos offer straightforward advice so parents can minimize conflict and maximize cooperation with their sons – especially those young men who are distracted by their digital devices. For more information, visit https://www.challengingteenagesons.com

*** Connect with Dr. Mark ***

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/challenging.teenage.sons Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/challengingteenagesons/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-mark-schillinger-family-mentor-and-community-leader-735585a/

In this powerful episode of Challenging Teenage Sons, Dr. Mark Schillinger reveals how artificial intelligence (AI) is changing family dynamics — and what parents must do now to prevent technology from dividing their family.

Are your teens more connected to their devices than to you?

Are arguments about screen time, gaming, or social media pulling your family apart?

Discover practical strategies for parents to strengthen family unity, improve communication, and raise resilient young men in the age of AI.

In this episode:

• Why AI is a threat to family connection • How testosterone and dopamine make your son defiant • The forgotten ancient practices that will unite your family • How healthy families can change the world

Don't let technology raise your kids for you!

** Resources for Parents and Young Men ** On-demand and live, online workshops for teenagers and young men are available here: https://cts.drmarkmentor.com/workshops

For a complimentary 20-minute consultation with Dr. Mark or for more information about his parent coaching and mentoring young men, go to https://cts.drmarkmentor.com/

*** About Dr. Mark Schillinger *** Dr. Mark Schillinger's work has been featured on the CNN show "This is Life with Lisa Ling." These videos are designed to help parents more effectively "challenge" or motivate their teenage sons to become more responsible and resilient. This podcast offers straightforward advice so parents can minimize conflict and maximize cooperation with their sons – especially those young men who are distracted by their digital devices.

For more information, visit https://www.challengingteenagesons.com

*** Connect with Dr. Mark *** Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/challenging.teenage.sons Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/challengingteenagesons/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-mark-schillinger-family-mentor-and-community-leader-735585a/

Do you find yourself stuck in power struggles with your teen? In this episode, Dr. Mark Schillinger, founder of Challenging Teenage Sons and Young Men's Ultimate Weekend, shares how the Both-And Principle can transform the way you communicate with your teenager.

Many parents fall into the either-or mindset—either they enforce strict rules OR they show empathy. But what if you could do both?

Learn how to:

• Stay calm and assertive during conflicts
• Hold boundaries while validating your teen's emotions
• Improve respect and connection without giving up authority
• Respond instead of reacting, creating trust and cooperation

The Both-And approach helps parents avoid unnecessary arguments and power struggles while teaching teens accountability and self-regulation.

For a complimentary 20-minute consultation with Dr. Mark or for more information about his parent coaching and mentoring young men, go to https://cts.drmarkmentor.com/

*** About Dr. Mark Schillinger *** Dr. Mark Schillinger's work has been featured on the CNN show "This is Life with Lisa Ling." These videos are designed to help parents more effectively "challenge" or motivate their teenage sons to become more responsible and resilient. This podcast offers straightforward advice so parents can minimize conflict and maximize cooperation with their sons – especially those young men who are distracted by their digital devices.

For more information, visit https://www.challengingteenagesons.com

*** Connect with Dr. Mark *** Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/challenging.teenage.sons Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/challengingteenagesons/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-mark-schillinger-family-mentor-and-community-leader-735585a/

Discover expert strategies to help your teenage son overcome distractions and boost his focus.

Dr. Mark Schillinger—founder of Challenging Teenage Sons and the Young Men's Ultimate Weekend—shares his personal journey and decades of experience mentoring young men to turn their short attention span into a strength, and to become skillful at focusing their attention.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• How a short attention span can be an asset in a neurodivergent brain • Why mindfulness techniques help regulate your son's emotions • Practical tips for creating a distraction-free environment and achieving flow state • Strategies for building executive functioning skills, discipline, and time management • Ways to empower your son to take charge of his productivity and self-respect Whether your son struggles with schoolwork, feels anxious about falling behind, or simply needs help mastering his focus, Dr. Schillinger's insights in this podcast offer parents actionable advice that will help their son transform challenges into opportunities.

His approach emphasizes the importance of structure, self-reliance, and mindset shifts that are key to adapting to today's fast-paced world.

For a complimentary 20-minute consultation with Dr. Mark or for more information about his parent coaching and mentoring young men, go to https://cts.drmarkmentor.com.

*** About Dr. Mark Schillinger ***

Dr. Mark Schillinger's work has been featured on the CNN show "This is Life with Lisa Ling." These videos are designed to help parents more effectively "challenge" or motivate their teenage sons to become more responsible and resilient. These videos offer straightforward advice so parents can minimize conflict and maximize cooperation with their sons – especially those young men who are distracted by their digital devices.

For more information, visit https://www.challengingteenagesons.com

*** Connect with Dr. Mark ***

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/challenging.teenage.sons Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/challengingteenagesons/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-mark-schillinger-family-mentor-and-community-leader-735585a/

In this episode of the Challenging Teenage Sons podcast, Dr. Mark Schillinger shares actionable strategies for parents to help their sons develop the three essential traits every young man needs: respect, responsibility, and resilience.

Whether your teenage son is struggling with defiance, lack of motivation, or poor decision-making, Dr. Schillinger offers practical advice to guide him towards success and positive change.

Dr. Schillinger, a family mentor and founder of The Young Men's Ultimate Weekend, brings decades of experience in helping parents foster better communication and understanding with their sons.

Learn how to teach your teen to respect himself and others, take responsibility for his actions, and build the resilience needed to overcome life's challenges. If you're a parent looking for proven ways to raise a confident, responsible young man, this episode is for you.

For a complimentary 20-minute consultation with Dr. Mark or for more information about his parent coaching and mentoring young men, go to https://cts.drmarkmentor.com .

*** About Dr. Mark Schillinger ***

Dr. Mark Schillinger's work has been featured on the CNN show "This is Life with Lisa Ling." These videos are designed to help parents more effectively "challenge" or motivate their teenage sons to become more responsible and resilient. These videos offer straightforward advice so parents can minimize conflict and maximize cooperation with their sons – especially those young men who are distracted by their digital devices.

For more information, visit https://www.challengingteenagesons.com

*** Connect with Dr. Mark ***

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/challenging.teenage.sons Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/challengingteenagesons/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-mark-schillinger-family-mentor-and-community-leader-735585a/

As a parent, are you worried about your teenage son struggling with low self-esteem or a lack of belief in himself? Dr. Schillinger shares proven strategies and insights to support your son through these challenging times, fostering growth and emotional resilience. Discover the root causes of self-doubt in teenage boys, and learn how to guide them toward a healthier, more positive mindset. Key topics covered:

• Why teenage boys experience self-doubt
• How parents can address low self-esteem in their sons
• Practical tips to boost confidence in your teen
• The role of mental health in overcoming self-doubt
• Empowering your son to succeed

Listen now to learn how to help your son thrive, even during tough emotional times. Whether you're dealing with teenage rebellion, anxiety, or communication challenges, this episode will provide valuable advice and actionable steps for every parent. For a complimentary 20-minute consultation with Dr. Mark or for more information about his parent coaching and mentoring young men, go to https://cts.drmarkmentor.com/ *** About Dr. Mark Schillinger *** Dr. Mark Schillinger's work has been featured on the CNN show "This is Life with Lisa Ling." These videos are designed to help parents more effectively "challenge" or motivate their teenage sons to become more responsible and resilient. These videos offer straightforward advice so parents can minimize conflict and maximize cooperation with their sons – especially those young men who are distracted by their digital devices. For more information, visit https://www.challengingteenagesons.com *** Connect with Dr. Mark *** Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/challenging.teenage.sons Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/challengingteenagesons/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/markschillinger LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-mark-schillinger-family-mentor-and-community-leader-735585a/

Does your teenage son struggle with confidence, resilience, or facing life's challenges head-on? In this episode of the Challenging Teenage Sons Podcast, Dr. Mark Schillinger, founder of The Young Men's Ultimate Weekend, challenges the idea that some teens are "special cases" who can't handle real-world stressors.

Dr. Schillinger shares powerful insights on why treating your son as a "special case" may be holding him back and how the right experiences can help him build resilience, self-confidence, and independence. Discover practical advice on how to support your son through his neurodivergent challenges, emotional traumas, or everyday struggles without coddling or overprotecting him.

What You'll Learn:

• Why no young man is a "special case"
• The importance of rites of passage like The Young Men's Ultimate Weekend
• How to help your son build resilience and adapt to life's challenges
• The benefits of letting your son face discomfort and grow from it
• Real stories of teens overcoming trauma and thriving

Watch now to learn how to empower your son to become a strong, independent young man! If you're ready to challenge the way you parent and support your son's growth, hit play.

Keywords: teenage sons, parenting tips, resilience in teens, challenging teenagers, raising boys, Dr. Mark Schillinger, Young Men's Ultimate Weekend, rites of passage, overcoming trauma, teenage resilience, parenting neurodivergent kids, how to raise resilient kids, parenting advice, teen confidence, mental health in teens.

For a complimentary 20-minute consultation with Dr. Mark or for more information about his parent coaching and mentoring young men, go to https://cts.drmarkmentor.com/

*** About Dr. Mark Schillinger ***

Dr. Mark Schillinger's work has been featured on the CNN show "This is Life with Lisa Ling." These videos are designed to help parents more effectively "challenge" or motivate their teenage sons to become more responsible and resilient. These videos offer straightforward advice so parents can minimize conflict and maximize cooperation with their sons – especially those young men who are distracted by their digital devices. For more information, visit https://www.challengingteenagesons.com

*** Connect with Dr. Mark ***

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/challenging.teenage.sons Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/challengingteenagesons/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-mark-schillinger-family-mentor-and-community-leader-735585a/

In this episode, Dr. Mark Schillinger shares the two words parents can say to understand and support their teen son while setting clear boundaries.

For a complimentary 20-minute consultation with Dr. Mark or for more information about his parent coaching and mentoring young men, go to https://cts.drmarkmentor.com/

*** About Dr. Mark Schillinger ***

Dr. Mark Schillinger's work has been featured on the CNN show "This is Life with Lisa Ling." These videos are designed to help parents more effectively "challenge" or motivate their teenage sons to become more responsible and resilient. These videos offer straightforward advice so parents can minimize conflict and maximize cooperation with their sons – especially those young men who are distracted by their digital devices. For more information, visit https://www.challengingteenagesons.com

*** Connect with Dr. Mark ***

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/challenging.teenage.sons Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/challengingteenagesons/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-mark-schillinger-family-mentor-and-community-leader-735585a/

Are you struggling with a son who seems disinterested, isolated, and resistant to responsibility?

Through his 25 years of mentoring parents and their sons, Dr. Mark Schillinger has witnessed the pervasive influence of digital addiction, leading young men into a state of extended childhood.

But there's hope. Dr. Schillinger offers practical insights and actionable strategies to empower parents to become effective mentors, guiding their sons towards independence and maturity.

Discover how to transition from the old ways of parenting to the new ways parents must adapt in order to navigate their son through the transition into this era of technological dominance.

Don't let time slip away. Join Dr. Mark Schillinger on this transformative journey and take the first step towards reclaiming your son's future. Sign up for a complimentary consultation at https://cts.drmarkmentor.com/