What are your expectations and goals? Whatever they are, it is going to require change. Change is required if you are expecting to grow and be successful, I am not talking about changing once, but often. As a person you must be will to evolve emotionally, mentally and physically. Winton Churchill said and I quote: "To improve is to change, so to be perfect is to change often. A caterpillar cannot become a butterfly until it changes. Change is not easy but it is required.