Can you change after years and years? A listener's husband has become much more affectionate after 20 years of marriage and her friends are saying it's a huge red flag. AJ explains how he has had a change in him in terms of being affectionate and doesn't see anything wrong with it. Also, can't we write off the last year plus as weird and affecting people dramatically? Are rivalries a bad thing? What about with siblings? AJ & McCall are both the oldest of four, what would they say is the center issue of rivalries?