Changing Your Mentality.

Today’s episode is on why we need to stop "figuring out life."I have observed something lately. Whenever a word or phrase flies all over the internet, we tend to all jump on it and make it our new mantra.

These days, that phrase is "I am still figuring out life." People have gone as far as making "figuring out life" their social media handles. But life isn’t an object to be figured out. Life is a subject.When you buy a gadget, you say, "I want to figure out how to use this gadget," which is true. It’s an object with a manual that can be figured out within minutes.

That doesn't apply to life. Life is an ever-changing subject. Take mathematics, for instance: you don't have one single formula for every problem. You have to keep learning because things change on a daily basis. That is life. You can't know it all because it is constantly evolving. Life doesn't have an inherent, universal meaning. You give it meaning according to your experiences and belief systems. You have to look at your life consciously and intentionally.

Ask yourself: How do I want my life to be? What do I want to make out of the life in front of me? How do I want my story to unfold? Be deliberate about your life. If you keep moving unconsciously, you will scream "fate" at every junction. And by the time you try to slip back into consciousness, you will just join the bandwagon of "figuring out life." Most of the people we look at and assume have it all "figured out" actually don't.

They simply asked themselves a clear question: I know why I want this, and this is how I will go after it. You just have to do the same and be patient with yourself. If you aren't patient, you will revert to operating unconsciously, and five years from now, you will hit another awakening and call it "figuring out life as I go." Just be intentional.

That is all life is asking of us. Our beliefs, experiences, and observations shape everything about our reality. Until we choose to see the patterns, we will remain in the cycle. Support Changing Your Mentality Podcast by hitting the follow button.

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00:00 - Introduction.

01:14 - Welcome.

02:30 - Life is not an object but a subject.

05:55 - Life is not meant to be explained but experienced.

10:28 - Have a clear why and how.

23:26 - Key Takeaway.

25:14 - Outro.

I almost made a costly mistake that would have ruined my platform forever.

When I started Changing Your Mentality Podcast, the primary aim was to explore psychology, human behavior, the subconscious mind, and returning to our original blueprint. However, when I began experiencing new insights on awakening, I felt compelled to bring them here.

That was my mistake. I should have created a separate platform for those topics or kept them on Instagram where they originally started. Instead, I decided it was best to end podcasting altogether—throwing out the baby with the bathwater.

I have now realized my mistake, and I am correcting it. I am not perfect. This is me welcoming both of us back to Changing Your Mentality Podcast. I know you are here because you care about psychology, human behavior, and understanding the subconscious mind.

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I love you. Until our next episode: stay safe, stay healthy, and bye for now!

If it is enlightenment that you seek on the internet, all you will get are crumbs.The real task is buried deep within you.Every flower would love water for it to grow. When the water becomes to much, the flower will begin to wither away.We are drowning daily in a pool of information. Those that are relevant and those that aren't.The noise on the outside won't stop cause we are tired. No. It is left for us to consciously choose if we are ready to quiet the noise and go within.All the answers that you seek is buried deep inside of you. To get it out, you need SILENCE.Silence has all the answers you seek.Silence creates the space in which your own understanding can emerge.Silence holds the power that will transform your life.More information, more digging would only keep you guessing and drown more.If it is the truth you seek.If it is enlightenment you desire.If it is the path of awakening that calls you, all you need is SILENCE.Changing Your Mentality Podcast comes to an end here—not because there is nothing more to say, but because everything that truly matters is found beyond words.The rest of the journey is between you and silence.Thank you so much for the likes, comments, and feedbacks.If the call to SILENCE has reached you, the SIS Technique was made specifically for you. Click on the link via in my bio and access yours. Kindly go to my page on Instagram:momentswithudmor. Thank you. 🪷💙As I always say, I am you and you are me.I love you.

Many people spend years living on autopilot, arriving at destinations they never consciously chose.In this episode, we explore how to become more intentional, how to stop drifting through life unconsciously, and what "going with the flow" truly means.We also discuss why adapting to life's changes is not the same as settling for less, how attachment to identities can create suffering, and why fulfillment comes from alignment rather than external labels.If you're ready to live more consciously and intentionally, this conversation is for you.

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Is following your passion supposed to be painless? Or have we forgotten the true meaning of the word?In this follow-up to our series on How to find your purpose in your passion, we dive deep into the mechanics of building a life that actually sustains you. We stop the "all or nothing" narrative and talk about the practical bridge between where you are and where you want to be.In this episode, we discuss:The 9-5 Permission: Why staying in your job is perfectly okay if it brings you joy, and how to use it as a "sponsor" if it doesn’t.Gift vs. Skill: Why your gift may not feed you yet, and why you must master a skill to fund your calling.The Latin Root of Passion: Why "Passion" literally means "to suffer," and how to embrace the necessary pain of the beginning.The Service Solution: Could your health issues or lack of a spouse be tied to a lack of service? Why "Seeking the Kingdom" (Service) often unlocks the very things you have been chasing.The Return of "Good Fear": Why we stopped challenging ourselves after school and how to bring back the "Good Fear" that forces growth.It is time to stop waiting for a painless path and start building the one you were meant for.If you are ready to let go of the beliefs holding you back and want to work with me to redesign your internal blueprint, I am available for 1-on-1 Mindset Strategy sessions. Send a mail to [email protected] to get started.

Are you the reason the boat is rocking? In the most vulnerable episode of Changing Your Mentality to date, we explore The Jonah Secret. We often look at the crises in our lives, health issues, job loss, family friction, as external attacks. But what if they are actually the "storm" sent to stop you from running in the wrong direction?In this episode, I share my personal "Whale" experience:The Comparison Trap: Why I spent years looking for "my Tony Robbins" instead of becoming the woman I was born to be.The First-Born Burden: How the pressure to provide for my mother kept me tethered to a career in accounting that wasn't mine to lead.The Cost of Disobedience: A raw reflection on whether the "storms" in our health and our families are connected to our refusal to serve our true calling.The Kingdom Principle: Why chasing "all these things" (money and fame) first leads to lack, while seeking Service first leads to abundance.

If you feel like you have been fighting an uphill battle, it is time to stop and ask: Am I Jonah? It is time to stop running and start forging your own path.If you are ready to let go of the beliefs holding you back and want to work with me to redesign your internal blueprint, I am available for 1-on-1 Mindset Strategy sessions. Send a mail to [email protected] to get started.

Have you been waiting for the day when you finally "arrive", where the worrying stops, the confidence is permanent, and you are officially "developed"?In this episode of Changing Your Mentality, we dismantle the dangerous myth of "Self-Development." The problem is in the word itself. "Development" implies an ending, a finished building, a completed task. But the human soul isn't a construction project; it’s a living, breathing process.In this episode, we discuss:The Grammar of Growth: Why we must shift our vocabulary from "Development" to "Developing."Mental Hygiene: If you wouldn't dream of skipping a bath or a meal for a week, why do you think one seminar or one book "fixed" your mindset forever?The Vacuum Principle: Why getting rid of worry isn't enough. If you don't intentionally fill that space with gratitude, lower frequencies like greed and anxiety will move back in.The Only Finished Project: Why the only time we stop "developing" is when we exit this physical frequency altogether.Stop looking for the finish line and start embracing the practice. You aren't "broken" because you still have work to do. You are simply alive.If you are ready to let go of the beliefs holding you back and want to work with me to redesign your internal blueprint, I am available for 1-on-1 Mindset Strategy sessions. Send a mail to [email protected] to get started.

I will start when I have more time. "I will focus on my purpose when I am more financially stable." In this raw and personal episode of Changing Your Mentality, we expose the most dangerous lie you have ever told yourself: that you don’t have enough time.If you are waiting for the "perfect moment" of silence to find your purpose, you will be waiting forever.I am sharing my personal blueprint of how I built my world while working a 9-5:The 3 AM Blueprint: How I birthed Moments with Udmor and Changing Your Mentality while the rest of the world was asleep.The Portal of Discipline: Leaving religion and finding true spirituality in the midst of a corporate schedule.The Noise vs. The Silence: Why your ability to connect with the Divine must exist within the chaos of your daily life, not just in a mountain retreat.The Love Metric: We don't "find" time; we create it for what we truly love.If you can’t find the frequency of your purpose in the noise of your current reality, you won’t recognize it when you finally reach the silence. It is time to stop lying to your soul.If you are ready to let go of the beliefs holding you back and want to work with me to redesign your internal blueprint, I am available for 1-on-1 Mindset Strategy sessions. Send a mail to [email protected] to get started.

Have you ever walked into a room only to completely forget why you went there in the first place? In this episode of Changing Your Mentality, we explore the "God on Anesthesia" effect. We discuss the startling connection between walking through a physical doorway and the ultimate portal, the journey into this physical world.Why do we arrive on Earth with "spiritual amnesia"? Why does it often take a near-death experience or the end of a life to finally remember the intention we were born with?In this episode, we dive into:The Bedroom Metaphor: Understanding the "Doorway Effect" and how it mirrors our entrance into this life.The Portal of Birth: How passing through different frequencies (from the non-physical to the physical) causes us to lose our "original intent."The Living Room vs. The Bedroom: Why we only seem to remember our purpose once we leave the "room" of Earth—and why we don't have to wait that long.The Power of Silence: How to re-access the frequency where your intention was formed through stillness and inner work.You didn't come here to wander aimlessly. It’s time to wake up from the anesthesia and remember why you walked into this "room" called Earth.If you are ready to let go of the beliefs holding you back and want to work with me to redesign your internal blueprint, I am available for 1-on-1 Mindset Strategy sessions. Send a mail to [email protected] to get started.

What if "Stupid," "Failure," or "Fool" were just vibrations in the air with no power to hurt you?In this episode of Changing Your Mentality, we peel back the layers of linguistic programming to reveal a liberating truth: You don’t react to words; you react to the meanings you have been trained to give them.Using the "Child’s Innocence" perspective, we explore why words only have the power we grant them. If a child doesn't know a word is an insult, they speak it with zero shame. So, why do we, as adults, allow sounds to dictate our emotional state?We dive into:The Anatomy of an Insult: Why we react to things we know aren't true, and how to stop.The "Truth" Test: If someone calls you a fool and it hurts, is it because a part of you believes them?Complimenting the Truth: Why "You are a fool" should be handled with the same neutrality as "You are beautiful" if both are simply observations of reality.The Catalyst for Change: How to use "painful" labels as a compass for personal evolution rather than a source of shame.Stop being a puppet to other people’s vocabulary. It is time to de-program your triggers and take back control of your inner broadcast.If you are ready to let go of the beliefs holding you back and want to work with me to redesign your internal blueprint, I am available for 1-on-1 Mindset Strategy sessions. Send a mail to [email protected] to get started.