In this episode of the Cape CopCast, we sit down with Chaplain Dr. Don Neace as he closes a 50-year chapter of ministry—and a decade walking beside Cape Coral Police and Fire—to share what truly holds first responders together when the worst calls come. Chaplain Neace's presence has spanned swearing-ins, hospital rooms, tragedies, and retirements, always with the same offer: talk, pray, or vent, no judgment. Lisa, his wife of 47 years, joins us to reveal the other half of service—the weary drive home, the boundary-setting, and what it's like to be the partner of someone who law enforcement leans on.

We dive into how chaplaincy works inside a modern department: ride-alongs that build trust, a desk in patrol that lowers barriers, and regular visits to dispatch, where stress runs high and closure is rare. Chaplain Neace explains how proximity and availability foster resilience, integrity, and professionalism across command staff, patrol, and communications. We also unpack the moment he knew it was time to retire, guided by a prayer from Psalm 39:4, and the choice to invest first in family—kids, grandkids, and being “Mr. Lisa Neace” with pride.

He also shares practical advice for new chaplains, honest marriage wisdom for first responder couples, and a clear reminder that faith and friendship can carry a load that duty alone cannot.