To be able to love one another the way Christ loves us, we will need to replace the human love with God kind of love. See, the han love is self-centered, selfish and self seeking. To love my brother and sister the way of God is to pursue a commandment I never had capacity for in the first place. So then, God required that we love him first with all that we have - heart, soul and body. In so doing we hand over all of our imperfect love. We empty ourselves so He fills us with His kind of love. Love God First and it will be a lifestyle loving every one the God kind of way, every day. You will be blessed as you listen.