The most tragic things that have happened in my life have nothing to do with losing my eyesight, losing my hearing, my brain cancer or the cancer I had in my testicle. Sure. All of these things are terrible. And the fact that I’ve become epileptic after my brain surgery isn’t fun either. But the worst things that have happened in my life are the two miscarriages and two abortions that have happened with Holly, Margie, Gretchen and Maria.