Ian loses quite a lot of rights and gets his character absolutely assassinated in the process.

Relevant links: Dear Prudie - https://slate.com/human-interest/2016/11/dear-prudence-i-told-my-wife-ive-been-more-attracted-to-other-women.html (The letter we reference is the first! CW for emotional manipulation and threatening suicide in one letter further down in this link)

Gotta Go My Own Way (Star Wars Edition) - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VXowfha2dTE (a classic, always relevant)