Firefighter, in the world of trauma and chaos, have to find a solution to a problem or "fix-it" RIGHT NOW. It can become bothersome when bringing home a marriage, thinking if the spouse is having a problem, they can fix it and be done when all the spouse needs is to vent. Done get defense but listen and have a conversation on leaving work at work. Don't go trying to fix each other, fix the nails and pull them out together!