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Would you say that you want to be uncomfortable? Is your ideal situation struggle free? If you have all the comfort in the world, and you have no struggle, then you have no need for faith in God. The struggle is good and slight discomfort keeps you pushing through faith.
Redemption
Church! My favorite peeps! People online! My favorite digital
peeps!
My name is Chris Fluitt and I am so blessed to be a part of Redemption Church. We are not a megachurch, but we are a mighty church doing huge things for God.
Chasing
Carrots
Many
people are chasing something they will never catch. We are in the
final week of our Chasing Carrots message series. We have talked
about the carrots of Fame, Money & Things, Perfection, and
Approval. Today I want to talk to you about one more carrot.
Have
you noticed that our culture is obsessed with the idea of “living
our best life.”
A
lot of advertising hits on this obsession.
– Take this medication so that you can have your best life…
this car. You deserve luxury.
Social
media
#bestlife with cliché pics
legs at the beach facing the ocean
or hotdogs
There
are several books with the titles like find your best life, choose
your best life, live your best life… One such televangelist even
wrote a hugely successful book “Your best life now.”
Our
culture is obsessed with the idea of our best life. So with that in
mind, we are going to talk about a carrot we have chased most of our
life… Comfort.
Comfort
I
do not like to be uncomfortable. Raise your hand if you don’t like
being uncomfortable. How could there possibly be anything wrong with
chasing comfort?
1 John 2:15 (NIV2011) Do not love the world or anything in the world. If anyone loves the world, love for the Father is not in them.
Stern
words from John to not love the world. What do you think that means?
Let’s
start with what loving “The World” doesn’t mean?
mean we shouldn’t love people in world…Jesus tells us to even
love our enemies. (Matt 5:44)
mean we shouldn’t enjoy the gifts God has given…every good gift
comes from God. (James 1:17)
mean we shouldn’t love things found in nature… God created
everything in nature and it all testifies to the glory of God!
(Psalm 19:1, Romans 1:20)
So
what does John mean by “THE WORLD?” The Greek word here for
“World” is the work Kosmos.
The
World – Kosmos
Kosmos
means more than just the physical planet. Kosmos means arrangement,
order, government, & system.
We have seen the system of this world at work. We know what that pattern looks like… power-grabbing & corruption… Lust & anger… the idea that you deserve the best things so do whatever it takes to have the best… even if it hurts others. In that context, it makes sense that we should not love this cultural system right??
Hidden
within this cultural system is the desire for comfort.
Comfort
Think
about it. Do people try to grab power, steal, & lie so that they
can have a more uncomfortable life or a more comfortable life?
Comfortable right!?
Think
about the life you desire… do you desire a more comfortable life or
a more uncomfortable life?
If we are honest… everyone in the room… everyone watching online… if we are honest we would admit that our desired life… our dream life – is defined more be ease than by struggle.
If
left unchecked this desire leads us to a life that doesn’t need
God. You don’t need God’s help because there is no struggle.
If
left unchecked the comfortable life will have us drifting aimlessly
down a lazy river.
Comfort
makes us lazy.
We
get lazy
For
you that are married… let me ask you if you remember “dating
you?”
Gentlemen,
when we were dating we were actively trying to win the heart of the
girl.
planned out dates and made it special.
you actually cleaned your home… you made the effort. You wore
clean clothes!!
of you wrote poems and songs.
of you sent flowers for no reason other than you wanted her to know
you loved her.
always answered her call and you always called her.
That
was dating you… what about married you? Have you gotten lazy?
Ladies:
Think about “dating you…”
That
was dating you… what about married you?
We
get comfortable. We get lazy.
I
want to challenge every married couple to stop being lazy! Your
partner deserves your best effort. Give your best to each other.
We
are told to not love the pattern and system of this world. That is a
pattern that seeks for ease only to become lazy.
Chasing counterfeit comfort
We
are chasing a counterfeit comfort. Counterfeit is designed to be a
close copy… a substitute for something with value while the
counterfeit has no value.
Could
it be that we are chasing something counterfeit and has no value
instead of finding the true valuable thing we desire?
I
want to give you 3 things chasing a counterfeit comfort will do.
SPIRITUAL EMPTINESS
When
we are chasing something external it reveals that we are lacking
something internal.
We
often over eat… we chase food… when we are lacking something
inside.
People
chase an extra-marital affair when they are lacking something
internal.
Maybe
you don’t need that new phone you are obsessing over… instead you
need to ask what am I lacking on the inside?
Maybe
your desire for likes and follows in social media is revealing a lack
you have internally.
Nothing
external can satisfy when you are spiritually empty within!
1 John 2:15 (NIV2011) Do not love the world or anything in the world. If anyone loves the world, love for the Father is not in them.
We
need the love of the Father within us! Only that will satisfy.
Think
about the love of God! Think about the love revealed on the cross as
Jesus died for the lost, the hurting, the poor, the weak, the
confused, the Jew, the gentile, the Christian, the atheist…
That
love is not counterfeit! That love is the real deal! That is the
love we need. We need that love on the inside. If that love is on
the inside it changes us.
2 Corinthians 5:14-15 (NIV2011) For Christ’s love compels us, because we are convinced that one died for all, and therefore all died. And he died for all, that those who live should no longer live for themselves but for him who died for them and was raised again.
The
love of Jesus compels us! The love of Jesus causes us to no longer
live for our own selves but for HIM who died and was raised again!
Some
of you are missing the compulsion of Christ to do big great things in
God’s kingdom and for others! Could it be that you are spiritually
empty and chasing something counterfeit? Maybe God has dealt with
you about helping others… giving your time and money…
volunteering or simply stopping to help someone broke down on the
side of the road… Christ’s love COMPELS US… but maybe we are
too busy chasing something counterfeit… too busy living for
ourselves…
Chasing
a counterfeit comfort reveals spiritual emptiness and it eliminates
our need for faith.
2.ELIMINATES
OUR NEED FOR FAITH
Hebrews
11 is the faith chapter. Nothing in that chapter was done
comfortably… it was all done by faith.
By
Faith…
offered a better sacrifice
was taken by God
was convinced about flood even though he had never witnessed such a
thing… By faith he built that ark and saved himself and his
family.
left home to occupy a promised land
believed she would have a child at an old age
on his death bed spoke of the exodus of Israel from Egyptian slavery
with a speech impediment was used by God to face down Pharaoh and
deliver Israel.
Are
any of these things easy? None of the people lived in comfort. They
lived in faith!
They
all faced hard situations that required faith in God. In faith, God
showed up and did the impossible.
Some
of you are desiring comfort but I have come to tell you that you have
everything you really need when you just stand in faith! ON CHRIST
THE SOLID ROCK I STAND… ALL OTHER GROUND IS SINKING SAND!
Hebrews 11:6 (NIV2011) And without faith it is impossible to please God, because anyone who comes to him must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who earnestly seek him.
Without
faith it is impossible
You
can’t ever get it done chasing something counterfeit… but you can
all things through Christ who is your strength!
Chasing
a counterfeit comfort reveals spiritual emptiness, it eliminates our
need for faith, it will make you a fraud.
you a fraud
The
people in that instragram pictutre that look like they are living
their best life… they aren’t… they are under such stress. It
is all a mirage. It is counterfeit.
We
are always so surprised when a wealthy handsome movie star commits
suicide… No one living their “Best Life” would commit suicide
right??
The
chasing of a counterfeit comfort will never bring you the real thing.
So you will have to fake it..
We
aren’t living a life of ease in the real world but we put on a show
for everyone else…
When
people ask how we are doing we say that everything is great when it
really isn’t…
We
never post anything on social media that doesn’t put a happy face
on an unhappy life…
This
pursuit of the counterfeit makes us frauds. This is the plan of the
world… the culture of our age… Do not love this fraud…
Instead
we need to embrace the authentic
Embrace
the authentic
We
need to get real. Life is not always easy. We are not always
comfortable. The counterfeit comfort is not always attainable and it
is never sustainable.
When
our paradigm is off and our expectations are misplaced, we have to
realize that the love of the system of this world is leading us down
a dangerous and destructive path. We have to align our expectations
of life with scripture.
Truths
like –
You
reap what you so… sometimes our discomfort is our own fault.
It
rains on the just & the unjust… discomfort comes to everyone.
Your unease in life does not mean you are out of God’s will.
As
we align our lives with God’s truth we will begin discover an
authentic comfort.
Authentic
comfort
We
will learn an authentic comfort. There is a comfort that is solely
dependent on God and not on the external things of this world.
You can be comfortable even when you are facing a giant… like David facing Goliath.
You
can be comfortable in the worst kind of life storm… like Jesus
sleeping on the boat.
You can experience comfort, that even though you walk through the valley of the shadow of death you will fear no evil because you God are with me… Your rod & your staff they comfort me… You God prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies… You God! I will dwell with you in your house forever.
These
aren’t just empty words. It is real and it is authentic. This kind
of comfort does not wilt under the pressure of the world.
2 Corinthians 1:3-5 (NIV2011) Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God. For just as we share abundantly in the sufferings of Christ, so also our comfort abounds through Christ.
You
want authentic comfort? We serve the God of all comfort! God is the
source of authentic comfort.
He
comforts you in all our troubles… so that we can comfort others.
Only
in Christ can your suffering be abundant, yet your comfort abound.
This
comfort that comes from God is not a counterfeit carrot chase… it
is the real deal.
I
am drawing to a close. I am praying that today you will receive the
authentic comfort that comes from God. But first I want to challenge
you to embrace divine discomfort.
Embrace
Divine Discomfort
There
are times where God calls you to discomfort. There are times he
leads you through a storm. There are times God draws you into a war
zone. There are times the Spirit drives you into the wilderness to
face the devil head on. Should we face these moments with dread
and fear… nope!
James 1:2-4 (NIV2011) Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.
There
is a divine discomfort that produces the best in you.
Does
comfort produce the best in us…
Does comfort produce six-pack abs and biceps? No discomfort produces that… Comfort actually produces bad health…
Does
comfort produce good grades in school and a promotion? No discomfort
produces that… Comfort actually produces the opposite.
There
is a divine discomfort that actually brings out the best in you.
The
most amazing moments are when God steps into my pain and produces the
impossible.
This
is not your best life yet
Quit
chasing the pattern of this world. Quit faking it. Embrace this
moment. Embrace the authentic. Embrace faith. Embrace what only
God can do.
Your
best life will be in heave. Right now we have work to do.
We
need to stop chasing counterfeit comfort.. We need to stop being
frauds.
Some
in this room you are deeply troubled. You are going through a
terrible struggle. The God of all Comfort is here for you today.
Come receive His comfort today. Allow Him to bring out the best in
you.
Some
of you in this room are way too comfortable. God wants to call you
into divine discomfort. He wants you to comfort others… serve
others… he wants you to get off your couch… Will you follow him
into discomfort today?
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Would you say that you want to be uncomfortable? Is your ideal situation struggle free? If you have all the comfort in the world, and you have no struggle, then you have no need for faith in God. The struggle is good and slight discomfort keeps you pushing through faith.
Redemption
Church! My favorite peeps! People online! My favorite digital
peeps!
My name is Chris Fluitt and I am so blessed to be a part of Redemption Church. We are not a megachurch, but we are a mighty church doing huge things for God.
Chasing
Carrots
Many
people are chasing something they will never catch. We are in the
final week of our Chasing Carrots message series. We have talked
about the carrots of Fame, Money & Things, Perfection, and
Approval. Today I want to talk to you about one more carrot.
Have
you noticed that our culture is obsessed with the idea of “living
our best life.”
A
lot of advertising hits on this obsession.
– Take this medication so that you can have your best life…
this car. You deserve luxury.
Social
media
#bestlife with cliché pics
legs at the beach facing the ocean
or hotdogs
There
are several books with the titles like find your best life, choose
your best life, live your best life… One such televangelist even
wrote a hugely successful book “Your best life now.”
Our
culture is obsessed with the idea of our best life. So with that in
mind, we are going to talk about a carrot we have chased most of our
life… Comfort.
Comfort
I
do not like to be uncomfortable. Raise your hand if you don’t like
being uncomfortable. How could there possibly be anything wrong with
chasing comfort?
1 John 2:15 (NIV2011) Do not love the world or anything in the world. If anyone loves the world, love for the Father is not in them.
Stern
words from John to not love the world. What do you think that means?
Let’s
start with what loving “The World” doesn’t mean?
mean we shouldn’t love people in world…Jesus tells us to even
love our enemies. (Matt 5:44)
mean we shouldn’t enjoy the gifts God has given…every good gift
comes from God. (James 1:17)
mean we shouldn’t love things found in nature… God created
everything in nature and it all testifies to the glory of God!
(Psalm 19:1, Romans 1:20)
So
what does John mean by “THE WORLD?” The Greek word here for
“World” is the work Kosmos.
The
World – Kosmos
Kosmos
means more than just the physical planet. Kosmos means arrangement,
order, government, & system.
We have seen the system of this world at work. We know what that pattern looks like… power-grabbing & corruption… Lust & anger… the idea that you deserve the best things so do whatever it takes to have the best… even if it hurts others. In that context, it makes sense that we should not love this cultural system right??
Hidden
within this cultural system is the desire for comfort.
Comfort
Think
about it. Do people try to grab power, steal, & lie so that they
can have a more uncomfortable life or a more comfortable life?
Comfortable right!?
Think
about the life you desire… do you desire a more comfortable life or
a more uncomfortable life?
If we are honest… everyone in the room… everyone watching online… if we are honest we would admit that our desired life… our dream life – is defined more be ease than by struggle.
If
left unchecked this desire leads us to a life that doesn’t need
God. You don’t need God’s help because there is no struggle.
If
left unchecked the comfortable life will have us drifting aimlessly
down a lazy river.
Comfort
makes us lazy.
We
get lazy
For
you that are married… let me ask you if you remember “dating
you?”
Gentlemen,
when we were dating we were actively trying to win the heart of the
girl.
planned out dates and made it special.
you actually cleaned your home… you made the effort. You wore
clean clothes!!
of you wrote poems and songs.
of you sent flowers for no reason other than you wanted her to know
you loved her.
always answered her call and you always called her.
That
was dating you… what about married you? Have you gotten lazy?
Ladies:
Think about “dating you…”
That
was dating you… what about married you?
We
get comfortable. We get lazy.
I
want to challenge every married couple to stop being lazy! Your
partner deserves your best effort. Give your best to each other.
We
are told to not love the pattern and system of this world. That is a
pattern that seeks for ease only to become lazy.
Chasing counterfeit comfort
We
are chasing a counterfeit comfort. Counterfeit is designed to be a
close copy… a substitute for something with value while the
counterfeit has no value.
Could
it be that we are chasing something counterfeit and has no value
instead of finding the true valuable thing we desire?
I
want to give you 3 things chasing a counterfeit comfort will do.
SPIRITUAL EMPTINESS
When
we are chasing something external it reveals that we are lacking
something internal.
We
often over eat… we chase food… when we are lacking something
inside.
People
chase an extra-marital affair when they are lacking something
internal.
Maybe
you don’t need that new phone you are obsessing over… instead you
need to ask what am I lacking on the inside?
Maybe
your desire for likes and follows in social media is revealing a lack
you have internally.
Nothing
external can satisfy when you are spiritually empty within!
1 John 2:15 (NIV2011) Do not love the world or anything in the world. If anyone loves the world, love for the Father is not in them.
We
need the love of the Father within us! Only that will satisfy.
Think
about the love of God! Think about the love revealed on the cross as
Jesus died for the lost, the hurting, the poor, the weak, the
confused, the Jew, the gentile, the Christian, the atheist…
That
love is not counterfeit! That love is the real deal! That is the
love we need. We need that love on the inside. If that love is on
the inside it changes us.
2 Corinthians 5:14-15 (NIV2011) For Christ’s love compels us, because we are convinced that one died for all, and therefore all died. And he died for all, that those who live should no longer live for themselves but for him who died for them and was raised again.
The
love of Jesus compels us! The love of Jesus causes us to no longer
live for our own selves but for HIM who died and was raised again!
Some
of you are missing the compulsion of Christ to do big great things in
God’s kingdom and for others! Could it be that you are spiritually
empty and chasing something counterfeit? Maybe God has dealt with
you about helping others… giving your time and money…
volunteering or simply stopping to help someone broke down on the
side of the road… Christ’s love COMPELS US… but maybe we are
too busy chasing something counterfeit… too busy living for
ourselves…
Chasing
a counterfeit comfort reveals spiritual emptiness and it eliminates
our need for faith.
2.ELIMINATES
OUR NEED FOR FAITH
Hebrews
11 is the faith chapter. Nothing in that chapter was done
comfortably… it was all done by faith.
By
Faith…
offered a better sacrifice
was taken by God
was convinced about flood even though he had never witnessed such a
thing… By faith he built that ark and saved himself and his
family.
left home to occupy a promised land
believed she would have a child at an old age
on his death bed spoke of the exodus of Israel from Egyptian slavery
with a speech impediment was used by God to face down Pharaoh and
deliver Israel.
Are
any of these things easy? None of the people lived in comfort. They
lived in faith!
They
all faced hard situations that required faith in God. In faith, God
showed up and did the impossible.
Some
of you are desiring comfort but I have come to tell you that you have
everything you really need when you just stand in faith! ON CHRIST
THE SOLID ROCK I STAND… ALL OTHER GROUND IS SINKING SAND!
Hebrews 11:6 (NIV2011) And without faith it is impossible to please God, because anyone who comes to him must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who earnestly seek him.
Without
faith it is impossible
You
can’t ever get it done chasing something counterfeit… but you can
all things through Christ who is your strength!
Chasing
a counterfeit comfort reveals spiritual emptiness, it eliminates our
need for faith, it will make you a fraud.
you a fraud
The
people in that instragram pictutre that look like they are living
their best life… they aren’t… they are under such stress. It
is all a mirage. It is counterfeit.
We
are always so surprised when a wealthy handsome movie star commits
suicide… No one living their “Best Life” would commit suicide
right??
The
chasing of a counterfeit comfort will never bring you the real thing.
So you will have to fake it..
We
aren’t living a life of ease in the real world but we put on a show
for everyone else…
When
people ask how we are doing we say that everything is great when it
really isn’t…
We
never post anything on social media that doesn’t put a happy face
on an unhappy life…
This
pursuit of the counterfeit makes us frauds. This is the plan of the
world… the culture of our age… Do not love this fraud…
Instead
we need to embrace the authentic
Embrace
the authentic
We
need to get real. Life is not always easy. We are not always
comfortable. The counterfeit comfort is not always attainable and it
is never sustainable.
When
our paradigm is off and our expectations are misplaced, we have to
realize that the love of the system of this world is leading us down
a dangerous and destructive path. We have to align our expectations
of life with scripture.
Truths
like –
You
reap what you so… sometimes our discomfort is our own fault.
It
rains on the just & the unjust… discomfort comes to everyone.
Your unease in life does not mean you are out of God’s will.
As
we align our lives with God’s truth we will begin discover an
authentic comfort.
Authentic
comfort
We
will learn an authentic comfort. There is a comfort that is solely
dependent on God and not on the external things of this world.
You can be comfortable even when you are facing a giant… like David facing Goliath.
You
can be comfortable in the worst kind of life storm… like Jesus
sleeping on the boat.
You can experience comfort, that even though you walk through the valley of the shadow of death you will fear no evil because you God are with me… Your rod & your staff they comfort me… You God prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies… You God! I will dwell with you in your house forever.
These
aren’t just empty words. It is real and it is authentic. This kind
of comfort does not wilt under the pressure of the world.
2 Corinthians 1:3-5 (NIV2011) Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God. For just as we share abundantly in the sufferings of Christ, so also our comfort abounds through Christ.
You
want authentic comfort? We serve the God of all comfort! God is the
source of authentic comfort.
He
comforts you in all our troubles… so that we can comfort others.
Only
in Christ can your suffering be abundant, yet your comfort abound.
This
comfort that comes from God is not a counterfeit carrot chase… it
is the real deal.
I
am drawing to a close. I am praying that today you will receive the
authentic comfort that comes from God. But first I want to challenge
you to embrace divine discomfort.
Embrace
Divine Discomfort
There
are times where God calls you to discomfort. There are times he
leads you through a storm. There are times God draws you into a war
zone. There are times the Spirit drives you into the wilderness to
face the devil head on. Should we face these moments with dread
and fear… nope!
James 1:2-4 (NIV2011) Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.
There
is a divine discomfort that produces the best in you.
Does
comfort produce the best in us…
Does comfort produce six-pack abs and biceps? No discomfort produces that… Comfort actually produces bad health…
Does
comfort produce good grades in school and a promotion? No discomfort
produces that… Comfort actually produces the opposite.
There
is a divine discomfort that actually brings out the best in you.
The
most amazing moments are when God steps into my pain and produces the
impossible.
This
is not your best life yet
Quit
chasing the pattern of this world. Quit faking it. Embrace this
moment. Embrace the authentic. Embrace faith. Embrace what only
God can do.
Your
best life will be in heave. Right now we have work to do.
We
need to stop chasing counterfeit comfort.. We need to stop being
frauds.
Some
in this room you are deeply troubled. You are going through a
terrible struggle. The God of all Comfort is here for you today.
Come receive His comfort today. Allow Him to bring out the best in
you.
Some
of you in this room are way too comfortable. God wants to call you
into divine discomfort. He wants you to comfort others… serve
others… he wants you to get off your couch… Will you follow him
into discomfort today?