The Love & Career Crossroads Podcast

Chasing vs Leading: Why You Keep Stepping in When He Doesn't Lead


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You've been told men don't lead anymore. That they're afraid of rejection. That dating has changed.

But what if that's not the real issue?

In this episode, we're breaking down the difference between chasing and leading and why so many women find themselves overcompensating in dating without even realizing it.

Because chasing isn't leadership… and leadership isn't about pursuit, it's about clarity, direction, and follow-through.

I'm diving into:

  • Why men say they don't want to "chase" (and what they actually mean)
  • The difference between initiative, leadership, and over-pursuing
  • How women unintentionally step into the role that isn't theirs
  • How each Energetic Frequency Archetype™ overfunctions differently in dating

And most importantly, how to recognize when it's not confusion… it's information.

Because the truth is: The right man doesn't need to be managed. And however he's showing up… that's the standard being set.

If you're ready to stop overfunctioning and start relating from self-trust, this episode will shift how you see everything.

Want to see how this pattern shows up for you? Take the Archetype Quiz → https://www.ericaanntorres.com/EFAQUIZ

Connect with Erica Ann Torres Transformation Doula | Creator of the Energetic Frequency Archetypes System

IG: @erica_ann_torres

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The Love & Career Crossroads PodcastBy Erica Ann Torres