Chats with a Socially-Conditioned Introvert

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Today I’m joined by my friend Tshego in an introspective discussion about love, vulnerability, navigating relationships and the emotional complexities of family dynamics. This conversation also touches on faith, forgiveness and purity

00:00 Finding Your Happy Ending

01:32 Embracing Creativity

02:47 Understanding Vulnerability

03:59 Intentional Love

05:44 The Importance of Consideration

08:56 Growth and Self-Understanding

10:06 The Concept of Love Languages

13:21 Defining Loyalty

18:14 Family Dynamics and Boundaries

23:00 The Power of Forgiveness

26:40 Introverts and Art

29:56 The Importance of Community and Vulnerability

36:59 The Role of Cooking in Relationships

40:49 Reflections on Past Relationships and Mistakes

50:30 The Need for Support and Right Voices

Welcome back birdies. This week I discuss some of the things I would say to a person who was to live my life for a week.

At the end of the day, I’m just a girl🙂‍↕️

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Recognising your resilience is the first step to many more, all leading to your growth . Welcome back birdies. I hope you enjoy this week’s conversation

Also check out the piece that inspired this conversation

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When Nietzsche speaks of being careful of looking too long at the monster, he asks of us to find the balance between fighting our traumas and learning to let them go. This week we reflect on his quote and consider if we are really the good people that we are because we want to be or we had no other choice.

As always, I’m sending my love to you 💜✨

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This week we discuss compartmentalisation and its effects and we also dive into discussion on rejection, as I offer a perspective of how to approach rejection

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In what way are you in awe of yourself? This week chat is a bit lengthy but I hope you receive it with love as I go in and out of conversations that crossed my mind recently. I discuss escapism and my struggles with identity, why I don’t like the say “be kind it’s their first time, and other related things. I hope you enjoy. Please be kind and leave a rating. Sending you love💜✨

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I can't believe this is the 4th of our many conversations to come. Allow me to use this as a point of reflection on our journey.

1. I do feel the conversations are getting much easier and I'm less tense during recording

2. I am still working on getting the audio to be better, I don't want to dwell on perfection, as mentioned in our first conversation, but it will improve.

This week, I allow myself to be more vulnerable as we talk about shame and friendship, and go down memory lane a bit. Enjoy xx

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This week we discuss judgment, I share my opinion on how to navigate it and the fear of it.

I also look into the feeling of being seen too much that happens as a result of my introverted personality

I hope you enjoy this week’s ride and the rest of your week. I am still finding a sign-off that feels natural 🤭

Sending love

00:27 - “Asake”

08:51 - “Ayandastood”

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On this episode I share my thoughts on the topic of reassurance and finding the balance, the asocial habits that we’ve adopted as we’ve been nonchalanting a little close to the sun , and small talk

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Sending my love as always✨

A brief chat about wrestling with perfectionism and how it affects actually getting to know your potential. Welcome to my lovely space. Please share kindness and love with me as I learn and grow through these weekly chats 💜✨

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