“ Is evasive about details

Keeps a change of clothing in their car

Suggests you go do activities without them

Goes to social events without you

Locks the bathroom or bedroom door

No longer kisses you during sex

Has separate email accounts hidden from you

Looks nervous when their phone rings

Only remembers negative aspects of your relationship

Starts dining out at restaurants you have never been to

Turns phone off or doesn’t answer when they are away from home

Chatting with the opposite sex on Facebook

Looking in the personal sections of websites

Getting phone messages, texts or emails from old girlfriends or boyfriends

Find hair in your bed or in their car

Smell perfume/cologne on bed sheets or their clothing.” “Ethical porn has intimacy coordinators, intimacy choreographers, sex-work therapists, sexual trauma specialists, sexeperts, sex coaches, sex therapists, intimacy disorders specialists, and sexologists while mainstream pornography tends to not have these duties.” -Antonio Myers

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