"I deserved to be cheated on..."

Sheesh, have you ever heard someone say THAT on a podcast?! 👀

In this conversation, Cam and Elle explore cheating, trust issues, and when to give second chances.

Cam vulnerably discusses his experience being cheated on while living in Bali and how he took it as an opportunity to self-reflect, understand how he created the conditions for infidelity, and use it as fuel to turn himself into an incredible man. ❤️

We also discuss why people stay in the wrong relationships, how we can support friends who have been cheated on, a wild “second chance?” story from The Board Walks here in Austin, the crucial “test period” after you give a relationship another go, the inputs of being seen, finding forgiveness and re-framing your relationship to hard moments, why you need to stop trying to solve romance because love isn’t logical... and so much more.

Thank you for listening! We’d love to hear what resonated with you. 💌

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CHAPTERS:

00:00 Welcome Back & Talking From The Heart

02:33 “Have You Ever Stayed in A Relationship Too Long?”

04:55 Cam’s Experience Being Cheated On

17:19 Why People Cheat

23:03 Cam Takes Responsibility For Being Cheated On

25:43 Second Chances After Cheating

32:05 Healing Trust Issues

39:30 How We Can Support Friends Who Get Cheated On

44:45 Cam’s Ex Called Him Out & Propelled Him Into Growth

51:05 How You Get Momentum & Keep It

57:45 The Pyramid to Change Your Life

01:00:45 “When Should You Give A Second Chance?” (Story From The Walk)

01:13:45 Why Cam Recommends a “Test Period” Minus Sex

01:16:45 Don’t Try To “Solve” Romance… It’s A Feeling

01:21:45 Everyone Wants Emotional Safety

01:26:05 Listen To Your Own Voice in Dating & Tell 1 Trusted Friend

01:32:33 Why Cam Forgave His Ex

01:37:45 Kobe Build and NBA2K (Being Seen)

01:41:33 Why Rizz is Taking Risks

01:45:33 “The Work” Is Inner Work, Not Biohacking

01:50:13 Outro & Join Us For Fun Projects!