When it comes to picking up the tab, let’s draw the line — when are we “being chivalrous” and when are we getting taken advantage of? Is chivalry dead, too antiquated for 2021? When does the other person start footing the bill, when do we split it?

Patrick and Michaela dive into all of the above, including purse pumps and dinosaur arms, and the timeline of “courting” in regards to finances.

Then the two get into emailer questions — one listener wants to know if he needs to cut things off completely with someone he’s not sure he wants something serious with. 

Another listener asks about “negging” and Michaela dishes on her reading of the pickup artist culture.

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