Pull up a chair on the porch, pour yourself a glass of sweet tea, and settle in with Hope Maxwell for a truth-soaked lesson in discernment.

In this episode, we’re talkin’ about vetting — the gracious, grounded way to find out who’s who before you hand over your heart, your trust, or your handcuffs.

From polite observation to quiet background checks, Hope blends Southern etiquette with real-world BDSM wisdom.

You’ll learn:

• 🩷 How to tell sugar from saccharine — real sweetness from the kind that leaves an aftertaste
• 🍑 Five steps for safe, smart, and mutual vetting
• 🌙 Why listening to your gut is the most powerful tool you have
• 💌 A special listener Q & A about “cracks” that appear after the honeymoon phase
• 📜 Free printables: The Southern Sub’s Vetting Checklist + The Gentleman’s Vetting Guide

Whether you’re new to the lifestyle or seasoned as Sunday gravy, this porch-swing talk will help you keep your standards polished and your peace intact.

🫖 Resources & Links

• Printable guides + playlist: https://bit.ly/Vetting-TeaTunes
• Submit questions: [email protected]

Just a show note. Next week is Thanksgiving and our episode will release on Thursday. Our next Spicy Saturday episode about Aftercare drops on December 6th.

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