Chiamaka's Advice Blog Show

How Derek Jaxn do it not really taking accountability for him cheating on his wife and how it has affected not only his brand but his marriage? How he has a real lies have all of this is not only impacted his brand but also his wife's mental health and well being? How there are consequences repercussions to your actions, behaviour and decisions? And sometimes the karma from your consequences and repercussions based on your decisions, actions and behavior not only affects you but others. Add a certain age you should know the importance of practicing what you preach and doing what you say. Knowing right from wrong in knowing that some things are not worth doing regardless of how tempting that is. Or who influences you to do it. You should have a mind of your own. And was being done in the dark will always come to light.

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How a lot of people on social media and in your real life always telling you what you need to do but not taking their own advice? Many people are good at preaching at people as far as what others should do. But when it comes to them practicing what they preach, they don't. So you have to very careful who you take advice from, let influence you or convince you to do something. A lot youtubers and people who claim to be about self held relationship rules or spiritual guides are leading you down the wrong path. They don't show you their journeys and how they get to the knowledge and wisdom that they got to. There using other people's information and using it as their own to scam, manipulate and lie to people. You should never take anybody's word at face value until they prove themselves based upon their actions and behaviour.

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There's nothing wrong with helping others and being a good person. But there comes a time when you have to put yourself 1st and think about what's best for you when it comes to the choices and decisions and the people that you deal with. Some people are not good for you. And we base a lot of our decisions based upon being approved, liked, trying to prove something to people and being accepted by others. We've been over backers in lower ourselves in order to bring other people up and make sure that there straight. But these people don't do the same for you. So you should never lower yourself to people that are beneath you.

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Me comparing being single to being in a relationship.

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There are different types of beautiful. I don't feel that 1 type of beauty is better than another. What makes someone average or unattractive? Why is it just because someone has flaws imperfections does that make them unattractive for average? Just because someone is physically beautiful does not mean they don't have flaws and imperfections.

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Sometimes we tend to forget the Valentine's Day should be everyday. We tend to get so busy caught up in other things such as jobs, bills, children, friends, family, game systems and many other things that we forget about the importance of maintaining the bond between a husband wife girlfriend and boyfriend. We start to take each other for granted and neglecting the other person's needs because we think there not going anywhere because we've been together so many years. But everyday a person needs to feel appreciated and valued for things that they do for you every day. And we have to reminder sales why we fell in love in the 1st place. Sy wanted to discuss why it's important to make time for love and romance no matter how long you have been together.

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Everybody always says that relationships are based on the physical such as money sex, what someone looks like, and possessions. And yet people based this on this don't stay together. Nor can I keep a male or female in a relationship. Indian people who base our relationship on who a person is how they treat that person, what they do for that person, and the way they show affection towards that person stay together a lot longer. They also except that person's flaws and imperfections, have a friendship with that person and a deeper connection and respect of that person. So that kind of contradicts what people say about basing relationship on looks. Because what a person looks like don't define them as a person as far as mentally, emotionally and spiritually

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How to tell someone that you've been friends with for a long period of time or someone that you've been having a crush on how you feel about them? This is my advice and playlist on how to go about doing that. I really hope that this playlist helps you out when it comes to telling this person how you feel.

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How Danileigh is using the yellow bone thing to glorify sidechicks stealing men away from their wives, baby mamas, and girlfriends. How the only reason that her in these other women get these men is because the girlfriends and the wives in the relationships with these me. So sheeting get him because he left Mimi. These chicks need to understand that if these men are not divorced or let the girlfriend when the met them, then he's just stringing you along.

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How black need to stop listening to black men about we are supposed to be or deserve. Men just want black women to lower their standards and become strippers, thots, and in polygamous relationships. Black women deserve better and way more than what is portrayed on social media, and the industry.

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