In this episode of Gavels Down, Voices Up, I’m breaking down the three essential steps you need to know before heading into child custody mediation. If you’re navigating the stressful waters of custody and visitation disputes—especially in California, where mediation is mandatory—you won’t want to miss this. I’ll show you how to approach court-ordered mediation confidently, whether you’re in a high-conflict co-parenting situation or seeking standard custody orders.

In this episode, you’ll learn more about:

1. Reaching an Agreement: It’s always better to reach a mutual agreement during mediation rather than leaving the decision up to a judge. However, only agree if you’re comfortable with the terms; never settle under pressure.
2. Present Yourself Professionally: How you present yourself in mediation matters. Be respectful, avoid interrupting, and use neutral language like "our child" instead of "my child" to appear more collaborative.
3. Understand the Mediator's Role: The mediator is neutral but will make a recommendation to the judge based on the session. Presenting yourself in the best light can influence the mediator’s report.
4. Provide Solutions: Don’t just voice concerns—offer clear, actionable solutions for the mediator to consider. This ensures your perspective is heard and the mediator doesn’t have to guess.
5. Stay Calm Under Pressure: Expect emotional challenges during mediation, especially from the other parent. Stay composed and focus on presenting your case logically, rather than getting pulled into arguments.
6. Focus on Long-Term Relationships: While mediation and custody disputes can be stressful, remember that your relationship with your child will extend long after the court process. Keep your focus on building a strong foundation for the future.

If child custody mediation feels overwhelming, don’t worry—this episode will give you the tools to navigate it successfully and come out stronger. Let’s dive in!

00:00 Introduction to Child Custody Mediation

00:52 Welcome to Gavels Down, Voices Up

01:28 Understanding Court-Ordered Mediation

02:31 Key Tips for Mediation Success

05:10 The Role of the Mediator

08:44 Providing Solutions in Mediation

12:26 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

14:35 Conclusion and Call to Action

Learn more about Rachel King:

Website: https://rachelkingattorney.com

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/thelawyerking/

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@rachelkinglaw

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