The grind of parenting can be tough or overwhelming if you wait too long to understand the point of children.  After all, wouldn't it be good to know that there is another way to raise your children other than the Disney world mentality of the day?  Most parents think their job is to give their children a good life according to their children.  You don't have to look far to see parents with SUVs loaded with sports schedules going from one child's game to another after a full day's work only to end up in bed after 10pm.  Is this what God had in mind when He said multiply and be fruitful?