Compare with other one does not help. Compare makes us envious. Sometimes we feel even treated us unfairly, when someone who has failed is more blessed than we are. But we should not be jealous of the blessings of someone else. Hebrews 12 invites us to take off all that and seen on Jesus, we turn 180 degrees to become like Him and like Him to Jesus. Everyone is blessed, you have your blessing, the other has his.