The youngest of four siblings, Tim Reeder's parents divorced when he was a child. He went to live with his mother, who remarried, and where Tim witnessed lots of mental and physical abuse toward his mom and sisters.
At age 14, his father came around with a new wife. Unfortunately, she had also suffered massive trauma and was not capable of being a parent. Tim suffered alternating experiences of emotional abuse and massive neglect.
Tim turned inward to learn how to cope. He became what is called a "firefighter" in coaching and organizational psychology circles. It means that Tim is a peacemaker and a problem-solver.
Tim ran with the role, and after coming out as gay by age 18, he had to learn that being a "firefighter" didn't mean he had to pacify, patronize, or placate anyone.
When Tim decided to go into real estate, he discovered that through his empathy and fix-it attitude, he could genuinely and fearlessly serve others. It turned his job as an agent into a massively successful business in Omaha, Neb., one founded on passion, authenticity, and inclusion.
You will hear Tim explain how he took beliefs and turned them into actions. This is one of the liveliest debates I've had on Chiseled when it comes to the role of God in our lives and how best to worship Him.