One thing we have to understand is that God Himself made choices, and He empowered man to make choices and would stand by the decision - choices made by man and hold him accountable for the choices he(man) made. Nothing changes in life without a decision. Destiny doesn't answer those who wait for it to happen automatically, it answers to those who are decisive about it. Note that indecision in itself is a decision - choice made. Be decisive about your life.