Let’s talk about her—the woman who triggered you on Instagram. The one living the life you say you want but secretly side-eye. In this episode of Choose To Become, we’re getting real about jealousy—not to judge it, but to mine it. Because jealousy? She’s not the villain. She’s the mirror. And what she reflects are the parts of you that are craving more… but you’ve been too afraid to admit it.

We’re unpacking why your nervous system feels threatened by someone else’s shine, and how to stop making your envy mean you’re behind, broken, or bad. Instead, I’ll show you how to turn it into fuel—for embodiment, empowerment, and bold-ass self-permission.

This is your wake-up call to stop playing small and start listening to what your jealousy is actually asking for: more of you.

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Jealousy and Self-Reflection

02:47 Understanding Jealousy as a Mirror

06:09 The Role of the Nervous System in Jealousy

09:11 Tools for Transforming Jealousy into Curiosity

12:02 Reclaiming Your Power and Permission

15:05 Invitation to Personal Growth and Masterclass

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Keywords

jealousy, self-reflection, personal growth, empowerment, self-awareness, emotional healing, nervous system, transformation, self-permission, comparison

In this episode of Choose to Become, Lindsey breaks down why waiting to be picked is a trap—and how reclaiming your power starts with strengthening your self-concept. If you've ever lost yourself trying to be chosen (by a partner, a job, a room), this is your reminder: you're not here to audition. You're here to own your worth. We unpack Pick Me energy, how it shows up in relationships and career, and why being celebrated (not just tolerated) requires a deeper belief in your enoughness. This one’s part pep talk, part personal growth blueprint—and a full permission slip to choose yourself boldly, unapologetically, and without waiting for anyone else to cosign it.

Chapters

00:00 Reclaiming Your Power

05:30 Understanding Pick Me Energy

10:06 Choosing Yourself in Relationships

15:35 Choosing Yourself in Career and Healing

20:22 Final Thoughts and Call to Action

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self-empowerment, personal growth, pick me culture, self-worth, relationships, career, healing, mindset, self-concept, validation

In this fiery mid-year pep talk, Lindsey is calling you in with love—and a little side-eye. If you’ve been stalling, spiraling, or stuck waiting for the “right time” to begin, this episode of Choose to Become is your wake-up call. Lindsey unpacks the myth of readiness and why waiting for confidence, clarity, or perfect timing is just fear in disguise. Instead, she invites you to take imperfect, sacred action now—especially during the summer, a season of visibility, blooming, and boldness.

You’ll learn why readiness is a muscle (not a mood), how to take baby steps toward your vision, and what accountability and visualization can do for your momentum. Whether you’ve been ghosting your goals or just needed a reminder of your own power, this one’s here to lovingly drag and deeply empower you.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to the Journey of Becoming

06:07 Embracing Summer as a Season of Action

14:37 Practical Steps to Start Now

18:54 Empowerment Through Personal Growth

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readiness, empowerment, self-improvement, summer, visualization, action, personal growth, overcoming fear, accountability, motivation

Feeling restless in a life that once felt like the dream? You’re not broken—you’re waking up. In this episode, Lindsey reframes the so-called midlife crisis as a midlife awakening and invites you to see your desire for more as a sacred nudge, not a red flag. Through personal stories, powerful questions, and a dose of tough love, she’ll help you explore what you really want next—and why it’s not too late to go after it. If you’ve been silently wondering, “Is this all there is?”—this one’s for you.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction

02:21 Understanding Restlessness and Awakening

03:57 The Myth of the Midlife Crisis

06:37 Signs of a Midlife Awakening

08:21 Investing in Personal Growth

10:24 Questions for Self-Reflection

12:51 Embracing Your Desires

15:01 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

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Keywords

midlife awakening, personal growth, self-discovery, life changes, investing in yourself, overcoming restlessness, empowerment, self-reflection, career transition, emotional well-being

This week, Lindsey dives deep into the real work of healing: shadow work. She unpacks the danger of toxic positivity and why bypassing your pain in the name of “good vibes only” keeps you stuck. Instead, Lindsey offers a soulful and honest exploration of how facing your shadow—your unmet needs, suppressed emotions, and unhealed wounds—is an act of radical self-love.

If you’ve ever felt guilty for not feeling “high vibe” enough or pressured to stay positive when you’re actually struggling, this episode is your permission slip to get real. Lindsey breaks down the signs of spiritual bypassing, the power of emotional intelligence, and the truth about what it really takes to grow.

This is for anyone in the messy middle—the ones learning to love themselves through the discomfort, not around it.

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Technical Difficulties

02:37 Understanding Toxic Positivity

04:53 Exploring the Shadow Self

07:23 The Importance of Shadow Work

10:11 Signs of Spiritual Bypassing

11:53 Breaking the Pattern of Bypassing

14:14 Embracing the Messy Middle of Healing

16:39 Conclusion and Call to Action

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shadow work, toxic positivity, personal growth, emotional healing, self-awareness, spirituality, mental health, self-love, integration, emotional intelligence

Pep Talks are now on YouTube! 🎉 In this Friday’s episode, Lindsey breaks down what real manifestation takes—and it’s more than good vibes and journaling. If your nervous system is in survival mode or your beliefs are blocking you, your manifestations won’t stick.

She shares how healing, aligned action, and nervous system support build momentum—and why the universe responds when you do. If you’ve been feeling stuck, this one’s your reset.

Chapters

00:00 The Reality of Manifestation

03:05 Taking Action Towards Your Desires

05:46 Building Momentum and Self-Awareness

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manifestation, nervous system, limiting beliefs, personal development, action, self-awareness, healing, alignment, momentum, courage

In this vulnerable and deeply personal episode, Lindsey reflects on her evolving relationship with forgiveness through the lens of grief, healing, and motherhood. What starts as a tender moment of reflection becomes a powerful exploration of what it really means to forgive—not to excuse or forget, but to reclaim peace and choose release.

She speaks candidly about parenting through pain, breaking generational cycles, and learning to hold space for softness without letting go of truth. Lindsey also touches on the quiet, often-overlooked process of self-forgiveness—especially for the things we didn’t know or couldn’t control at the time.

If you’re holding onto anger, guilt, or grief—this episode is a reminder that forgiveness isn’t weakness. It’s freedom. And you deserve it.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Forgiveness

01:21 Personal Story of Loss and Grief

05:09 The Journey to Forgiveness

09:30 Understanding What Forgiveness Is Not

12:14 The Freedom of Forgiveness

15:51 Self-Inquiry and Reflection on Forgiveness

18:11 Parenting Through Pain and Healing

21:31 The Power of Self-Forgiveness

24:00 Creating Space for Healing

25:38 Conclusion and Call to Action

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forgiveness, grief, healing, personal growth, parenting, trauma, self-forgiveness, emotional health, relationships, resilience

In this quick but potent pep talk, Lindsey dives into the messy middle of rebuilding self-trust—especially for the women out there questioning themselves a little more than usual lately. If you’ve been second-guessing your intuition, struggling to keep promises to yourself, or wondering when confidence will finally kick in, this one’s for you.

Lindsey reminds us that self-trust isn’t a destination—it’s a relationship. One that gets rebuilt one small action, one mindset shift, one brave choice at a time. This episode is your permission slip to stop beating yourself up for the past, start listening to your intuition again, and show up with love, grace, and a little tough truth. You’re not broken—you’re becoming.

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self-trust, personal growth, confidence, self-acceptance, empowerment, intuition, habits, mindset

This episode explores the often-overlooked difference between true healing and performative growth. Lindsey unpacks how the hustle of healing can become just another way to avoid discomfort—and how consuming endless self-help content without real integration keeps us stuck. Through candid reflection, she invites listeners to slow down, get honest, and make space for the quiet, unseen work of transformation. This is a call to stop performing wellness and start embodying it.

Chapters

00:00 The Hustle of Healing

06:26 True Transformation vs. Performative Growth

12:18 Finding Space for Healing

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healing, personal growth, transformation, self-awareness, therapy, performative growth, emotional wellness, mindfulness, self-reflection, inner work

In this special Mother’s Day Pep Talk, Lindsey gets real about the unseen weight of motherhood—the mental load, the exhaustion, the identity shifts, and the way it can feel like too much and not enough all at once. This is your reminder to breathe, to acknowledge your worth, and to stop minimizing what you carry. Whether you're a mom, know a mom, or are mothering yourself through something hard—this one’s for you.

You’ll hear truth, love, and permission to rest. Lindsey reflects on how personal growth often begins with simply telling the truth about how hard things are, and choosing—little by little—who you’re becoming on the other side of it all.

Chapters

00:00 Embracing Motherhood and Its Challenges

03:27 The Mental Load of Motherhood

06:06 Acknowledging Your Worth as a Mother

09:35 The Importance of Self-Care and Rest

12:21 Creating Change and Acknowledging Your Feelings

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motherhood, mental load, self-acknowledgment, women empowerment, personal growth, motherhood challenges, emotional support, self-care, change, women’s issues

(This episode originally aired on 10/8/2024)